"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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dealing w/ HB9 w/ a bf

l23

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hey guys. I'm in college right now n I got the digits of an hb9.5. when she was giving me the digits she said " I have a bf but it's ok". appearantly her bf is not even in the stave where we live. I need some tips about how to make her my gf since we're friends right now.
PS: we've been talking for a week now
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Chipleader

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If you're true friends then its too late. You are already in the lost abyss that is LJBF zone.
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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l23 said:
hey guys. I'm in college right now n I got the digits of an hb9.5. when she was giving me the digits she said " I have a bf but it's ok". appearantly her bf is not even in the stave where we live. I need some tips about how to make her my gf since we're friends right now.
PS: we've been talking for a week now
I will tell you something from my experience. Pretty much the same situation your in.

I met this girl who I got her number from. We hung out and I was spitting mad game at her. But, she had a boyfriend in another state. I didn't let this bother me so, I kept creating interest in her. So, after a little while of knowing her we started fvcking each other. By the way.. We didn;t have sex until like 2-3 weeks after of knowing each other. It takes time and patients with girls.

To make a long story short. We never became boyfriend and girlfriend. We were just fvck buddys. Because, eventually she moved back to her hometown where her boyfriend was living. I still communicate with her once in awhile because, we became pretty good friends besides the sex.

Since, she does have a boyfriend I would not get too attached to her. The same thing that happend to me could happend to you. Thankfully, I was spinning other plates so, I had other girls to fall back on when she left.

My advice would be to just become fvck buddys with her. Unless, she offically tells you that she broke up with her boyfriend and now wants to be with you.. So, just do your thang and see what happens.
 

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Not gonna happen

You're already in the friend zone. Maybe she didn't wanna hurt your feelings so you got lucky and got the number.

I'd make a move on her anyway. Might as well have her walk away from you so you know for sure if she's interested.
 

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crazy... i just posted my thread "c0ck-teasel" without seeing this one... i'm pretty much in the same boat.. only two diffrences.

1. I really dont care to break her up with her current bf to be with her. (althought im considering that more and more)

2. we aint really LJBF, its chemistry between us, and a weird flirty sexual fighting vibe, haha.


.. i dont know man, im confussed by it all. but its cool that we both posted these threads at the same time. Good luck with your hussy....
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Have you gone out with her alone, as in just you and her?

Have you kissed her yet? If yes, how far have you gotten? If no, why not?

Escalation attempts are the best litmus tests.
 

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l23 said:
hey guys. I'm in college right now n I got the digits of an hb9.5. when she was giving me the digits she said " I have a bf but it's ok".
What is ok?
 
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