"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Deal with texting this chick?

johnnysmith2224

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She will basically respond to everything and usually at a pretty fast pace... A few months back I was pretty sure she liked me. She asked me to a school dance and what not, things were good, but then I may have scared her with a certain "situation" which I'm not sure if I want to go into detail about. Any way for me to find out if I'm 100% in the friendzone? Thanks.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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johnnysmith2224 said:
She will basically respond to everything and usually at a pretty fast pace... A few months back I was pretty sure she liked me. She asked me to a school dance and what not, things were good, but then I may have scared her with a certain "situation" which I'm not sure if I want to go into detail about.
Gonorrhea?

Any way for me to find out if I'm 100% in the friendzone? Thanks.
Invite her out for some drinks. Go in for a little KINO. Go in for a kiss.

The only way is through risk. You're not going to be able to text, talk, or "love letter" your way into an answer.
 

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I was vibin with a chick pretty hard once. I went on vacation for 1.5 weeks. We made plans to see each other when I got back. Long story short, she met someone new in that 1.5 weeks.

I'm not saying your girl has lost interest. I'm not saying she hasn't. What I'm saying is that a whorish culture is more prevalent in this day and age with women than it has ever been. The only way to know if she is in to you is to get after her. Ask her out. Do it. Now.
 

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johnnysmith2224 said:
She will basically respond to everything and usually at a pretty fast pace... A few months back I was pretty sure she liked me. She asked me to a school dance and what not, things were good, but then I may have scared her with a certain "situation" which I'm not sure if I want to go into detail about. Any way for me to find out if I'm 100% in the friendzone? Thanks.
Hard to tell anything from the situation from what you've given us.
Can you give an example of your convo's?

johnnysmith2224 said:
then I may have scared her with a certain "situation"
You might have to go into detail about that situation
 

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johnnysmith2224 said:
She will basically respond to everything and usually at a pretty fast pace... A few months back I was pretty sure she liked me. She asked me to a school dance and what not, things were good, but then I may have scared her with a certain "situation" which I'm not sure if I want to go into detail about. Any way for me to find out if I'm 100% in the friendzone? Thanks.

johnny johnny, I feel bad for you buddy.... I hope this isn't the same girl you PM'ed me about a week ago. If so, fvck man.......
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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