Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Deal with texting this chick?

johnnysmith2224

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She will basically respond to everything and usually at a pretty fast pace... A few months back I was pretty sure she liked me. She asked me to a school dance and what not, things were good, but then I may have scared her with a certain "situation" which I'm not sure if I want to go into detail about. Any way for me to find out if I'm 100% in the friendzone? Thanks.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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johnnysmith2224 said:
She will basically respond to everything and usually at a pretty fast pace... A few months back I was pretty sure she liked me. She asked me to a school dance and what not, things were good, but then I may have scared her with a certain "situation" which I'm not sure if I want to go into detail about.
Gonorrhea?

Any way for me to find out if I'm 100% in the friendzone? Thanks.
Invite her out for some drinks. Go in for a little KINO. Go in for a kiss.

The only way is through risk. You're not going to be able to text, talk, or "love letter" your way into an answer.
 

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I was vibin with a chick pretty hard once. I went on vacation for 1.5 weeks. We made plans to see each other when I got back. Long story short, she met someone new in that 1.5 weeks.

I'm not saying your girl has lost interest. I'm not saying she hasn't. What I'm saying is that a whorish culture is more prevalent in this day and age with women than it has ever been. The only way to know if she is in to you is to get after her. Ask her out. Do it. Now.
 

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johnnysmith2224 said:
She will basically respond to everything and usually at a pretty fast pace... A few months back I was pretty sure she liked me. She asked me to a school dance and what not, things were good, but then I may have scared her with a certain "situation" which I'm not sure if I want to go into detail about. Any way for me to find out if I'm 100% in the friendzone? Thanks.
Hard to tell anything from the situation from what you've given us.
Can you give an example of your convo's?

johnnysmith2224 said:
then I may have scared her with a certain "situation"
You might have to go into detail about that situation
 

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johnnysmith2224 said:
She will basically respond to everything and usually at a pretty fast pace... A few months back I was pretty sure she liked me. She asked me to a school dance and what not, things were good, but then I may have scared her with a certain "situation" which I'm not sure if I want to go into detail about. Any way for me to find out if I'm 100% in the friendzone? Thanks.

johnny johnny, I feel bad for you buddy.... I hope this isn't the same girl you PM'ed me about a week ago. If so, fvck man.......
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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