"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Read more...

Deads on legs or on back day?

Aiken_Drum

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 18, 2001
Messages
1,242
Reaction score
3
Age
43
Location
Buenos Aires, Argentina.
I always used to do Straight-back Straight-leg Deadlifts on my back day.
A few days ago I talked to a guy at my gym and he told me it's better to do them on leg day because they are mainly for hamstrings.
I do them on back day because squats stress the legs a lot and another big compound excercise seems like too much for me.
But I'm leening more into his side now.
Another question, which in is better Straight-back Straight-leg Deadlift or Straight-leg Deadlift ?

I'm gonna be doing a pecs-triceps, back-biceps-forearms and legs-abs-shoulders split btw.
Thanks.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

Joined
Dec 14, 2003
Messages
293
Reaction score
0
Location
kingdom of latveria, central europe
stiff-leg deads on leg day.

just crucify your legs all in one day and be done with it..it gives you more recovery time before your next leg workout.

regular deads on back day.

ideally, you are doing both.
 

FitnessGuy

Don Juan
Joined
Dec 4, 2003
Messages
140
Reaction score
0
Location
United States
I do Stiff Leg Deadlifts(SLDL) on leg day and conventional deadlifts on back day.

In the past, I have also tried doing deadlifts on leg day.

I have also seen trainees who's progress was halted because they were doing both SLDL and conventional deadlift the same week. This has never been the case for me, but something to seriously consider because it can happen.

In the end it's up to you, but as the previous poster said it seems more normal to do SLDL on leg day.
 
Joined
Dec 14, 2003
Messages
293
Reaction score
0
Location
kingdom of latveria, central europe
Originally posted by FitnessGuy

I have also seen trainees who's progress was halted because they were doing both SLDL and conventional deadlift the same week. This has never been the case for me, but something to seriously consider because it can happen.
I think when that happens, it's not doing both in the same week per se... I think there are nutritional/rest/recovery issues that probably are the real culprits.

The hamstrings are a tremendously resilient muscle group, and like the traps, forearms, and calves, they can take a beating. I don't think the secondary stimulation the hams get from conventional deads would be such a huge factor.

Like I said, the likely culprit is probably lack of calories to counteract the metabolic supercharging effect that doing heavy deads will have on your body.
 

FitnessGuy

Don Juan
Joined
Dec 4, 2003
Messages
140
Reaction score
0
Location
United States
Originally posted by victor von doom
I think when that happens, it's not doing both in the same week per se... I think there are nutritional/rest/recovery issues that probably are the real culprits.

The hamstrings are a tremendously resilient muscle group, and like the traps, forearms, and calves, they can take a beating. I don't think the secondary stimulation the hams get from conventional deads would be such a huge factor.

Like I said, the likely culprit is probably lack of calories to counteract the metabolic supercharging effect that doing heavy deads will have on your body.
Very good point, you are probably right. The guy this happened to said it was due to "lower back" overtraining but I think you are right.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

Aiken_Drum

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 18, 2001
Messages
1,242
Reaction score
3
Age
43
Location
Buenos Aires, Argentina.
OK, I'm confused now. Can someone link to a page showing the differences with both deads?
Also, isn't it overtraining to do one type of deads on legs day (with squats) AND the other one on back day?
 

FitnessGuy

Don Juan
Joined
Dec 4, 2003
Messages
140
Reaction score
0
Location
United States
Top