Deactivated Facebook after break up -> Immature?

[Lion1985]

Im at the 122th Day of NC.

Because I dont wanted to unfriend or block my ex from my FB i found an compromise

-> I deactivted my FB at the 52th day of NC

With that move I wanted tho heal and also "dissapear" completely.

Wanted to show that i not stalk, not giving a ****......

Also not wanted her to see any updates from my life -> Creating curiosity, Mystery (I read somewhere a womans imagination will make her crazy)

But since some days doubts stray in my mind if that was the right move:

What if she thinks that this move was because I cant handle the break up?

What if she thinks that this move shows how immature and childish I am?

What if she thinks that the move shows how desperate I am and instead of creating doubts, curiosity, mystery in her head it doeas feed her ego?

I know NC is about me, I know I should dont give a single fvuck what she thinks, I know I should not analyze every single sh!t, but...

I just want to know your opinioin guys:

Was deactivating my FB account at a psycholigical point view a clever move, it will create curiosity, mystery and her imagination will make her think about it, or it does feed her ego because she thinks it was a desperate move?

Thanks very much guys!

 

[Fireballs]

I know NC is about me, I know I should dont give a single fvuck what she thinks, I know I should not analyze every single sh!t

You answered your own question. ^^^^

I would never deactivate my fb because of a girl. I would either unfriend her or just have self control and not go onto her page.

 

[Cerwin Vega]

Ideally, you shouldn't give a d@mn about what she thinks of you.

In reality, what happens is she probably doesn't give a d@mn about you if she hasn't contacted you yet. Sorry bro.

 

[Lion1985]

You answered your own question. ^^^^

I would never deactivate my fb because of a girl. I would either unfriend her or just have self control and not go onto her page.

Well I used FB very rarely, I never was depended on this sh!t, so it was not a big deal.

10 weeks passed since the deactivation, so if her ego should be feeded back then it is hopefully already cooled down.

And no, it was not only about her, as mentioned, i dont relly needed it, it was time wasting..

Im just a little bit scared that this move was in her "ego favor".

But maybe this "dissapering" will "catalyse" her imagination...who knows, some psychologists there? hehe..

Ideally, you shouldn't give a d@mn about what she thinks of you.

In reality, what happens is she probably doesn't give a d@mn about you if she hasn't contacted you yet. Sorry bro.

Yeah possible, 4 months of NC is nothing... from month 6 it will be interesting, my theory based on experiences with other exes and storys from the internet.

 

[Lion1985]

you sound like a complete bltch made baby. you bltch baby

stop the whining mental masterbatin. clear your mind and stop being an complete AFC for 10 fuking minutes.

drop your c0ck and grab your socks. todays a new day monica.

grab your ipod and your running shoes, create a moto playlist and jog till you hurl. or go hit the gym and lift some weights. or build a new tool shed. go bang a hot hooker. get in shape and stop giving a fuk about whats going through your exs mind. its OVER. there is no going back.

youre too invested and you need to sever the ties. your not a fuking fetus anymore you will NEVER find mommies love and security again. those days are GONE. all thats left in this life is you and your balls. so you either sack up and accept this fact and understand that life is a struggle and things will never go back to the way they were and you keep on truckin or just get out the way of everyone else whos swinging back!

Hehe, wow, that was intense, thanks man, I needed something like this