"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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dbot's no-bs guide to HS success

dbot

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Achieving great success in high school is pretty simple. I’ve seen a few good posts on “how to be cool” and such, but most them either leave out some important details, or discuss pointless topics. So here’s my guide to high school success, minus the bullsh!t.


Have a good attitude:
Always have a good attitude about everything, no matter what the situation. Learn to be optimistic and not take things too seriously. Make sure you are a fun person to be around.

Always keep your word:
If you say that you are going to do something, do it.

Respect EVERYONE:
Treat everyone with respect, regardless of how much they respect you. If you are disrespected, by all means stand up for yourself, but don’t stoop to their level.

Get involved:
Be involved as much as possible, whether it be in sports, clubs, or any other extracurricular activities.

Help people out:
Never hesitate to stand up for people who can’t stand up for themselves, and always try to lend a helping hand to others. Help a frustrated kid with his math. Lend a couple bucks to a homie when he forgets his wallet. Jump-start a classmate’s car for him/her. Kind acts toward others will earn you LOTS of respect.

Be independent:
Always try to be independent of other people. Handle your own problems and never rely on others to bail you out.

Be social:
Don’t confine yourself to one group of friends. Always be trying to meet new people.

Do what you want:
Don’t ever let someone’s opinion stop you from doing something. Do whatever the hell you want, with confidence, and don’t give a sh!t about what other people think.

Don’t let people categorize you:
Don’t be a prep or a punk or a goth or a nerd. Be your own person with your own style.

Have ambition:
Always be striving toward something. Set goals, and when you reach them, set new ones.

Set an example:
Make responsible decisions. A lot of people look up to you now.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Mikelo2k

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Good summary :) You could even print it out on small card and stick it in ur wallet and refer to it if ur ever low on self-esteem or not... :p

Good post anyways!
 

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a long-needed bump from my bookmark archives.

this is goin on my wall.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Perfect.
 

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Due to the chance of this being deleted due to time, Matrix has requested me to bump this for it to stay in the High School bible. Thank you.
 

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bump

This post isn't just related to school social structure but that of society and becoming a better person. The kind of person portrayed here is what everyone should aspire to become
 

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Simple, organized, and most importantly true. If you're not following most of these rules by now you haven't experienced high school as happily as you should be.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Gimme a B U M P. BUMP!
 

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So be a challenge with confidence, it is awesome, one of the first things i read when i came here
 

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BUMP

People here need this again: BUMP!:cool:
 

gav

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another bump

although i'd like you to note that kind acts to others are not good ideas if you are already a pansy because people will just walk all over you, like they did to me.

i'd rather adopt the "ain't nothin free in this world" approach
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Always keep your word
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double underlined.

personal lessons have been learnt.
 

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Great post. But unfortunately, there are a lot more factors that go in. HS is uncontrollable. There are too many issues that may influence every action. Nothing you ever do will give you 100% expected result.

--iMat
 
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