Last week I broke up with my girlfriend of 8 months. She was my 6th girlfriend in the last 5 years and was hoping for her to be the last because I honestly love her. She's great and loves me dearly. Though my temptation to cheat has become insatiable. As hard as I try to be faithful, my eye wanders and since March I've made out with like 6 random chicks. Never had sex with anyone else, but got dangerously close. Part of the problem was I only got to see her on weekends since we work and she lives a hour away. I broke up with her because I felt that I didn't want to string her along while I **** other chicks because she doesn't deserve that. Plus I'm only 23 and still feel that I need to get my life together and gain more life experiences before I can seriously commit to someone. Though I can't hide the fact that I still love her and not quite ready to let go. Was I right to breakup with her before I really ****ed things up or should have I sucked things up and been a 1 woman man?
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Dazed and Confused
- Thread starter mvin10
- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
speed dawg
Master Don Juan
You aren't married, and you aren't 25. Why again are you posting in this forum? Take this weak stuff back to the Don Juan Discussion.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
Well, all I'm saying is that I want to look back and say that I did I the best I could while I was stuck in this place. Had as much fun as I could while I was stuck in this place. Played as hard as I could while I was stuck in this place... Dogged as many girls as I could while I was stuck in this place.
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Love the new interest in my thread. Long story short, we got back together and then mutually broke up as it was clear that things weren't working. I realized very quickly that I should only commit to someone who I feel is this best person for me period and not just at the moment. Thanks guys