Last week I broke up with my girlfriend of 8 months. She was my 6th girlfriend in the last 5 years and was hoping for her to be the last because I honestly love her. She's great and loves me dearly. Though my temptation to cheat has become insatiable. As hard as I try to be faithful, my eye wanders and since March I've made out with like 6 random chicks. Never had sex with anyone else, but got dangerously close. Part of the problem was I only got to see her on weekends since we work and she lives a hour away. I broke up with her because I felt that I didn't want to string her along while I **** other chicks because she doesn't deserve that. Plus I'm only 23 and still feel that I need to get my life together and gain more life experiences before I can seriously commit to someone. Though I can't hide the fact that I still love her and not quite ready to let go. Was I right to breakup with her before I really ****ed things up or should have I sucked things up and been a 1 woman man?
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Dazed and Confused
- Thread starter mvin10
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
speed dawg
Master Don Juan
You aren't married, and you aren't 25. Why again are you posting in this forum? Take this weak stuff back to the Don Juan Discussion.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
Well, all I'm saying is that I want to look back and say that I did I the best I could while I was stuck in this place. Had as much fun as I could while I was stuck in this place. Played as hard as I could while I was stuck in this place... Dogged as many girls as I could while I was stuck in this place.
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Love the new interest in my thread. Long story short, we got back together and then mutually broke up as it was clear that things weren't working. I realized very quickly that I should only commit to someone who I feel is this best person for me period and not just at the moment. Thanks guys