"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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DayGame Video of some guy Approaching girls for 8mins straight..What did he do wrong?

YoungSir4sho

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http://www.worldstarhiphop.com/videos/video.php?v=wshh6AC39fmxlXc7N7gv

To be honest i give him props for keep approaching even tho i know its a contest. thats how we got to look at it. It's all about numbers.. meaning its a numbers game.. The more u apporach, u are bound to get a few numbers out of 20 approaches.. So where did he go wrong at??? I usually do the same by saying whats ur name but im also going to put my hand so they can shake it also. and i will not tell them they are gorgeous.

Also around the end, the guy asks her can he get a kiss. She said y, if he wouldve gave a better answer would he have gotten it???
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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HORRIBLE. No style, no flavor, no sex appeal. All these girls shot this dude down because he really didnt present himself in a smooth way and not attracted to style. You know how tough it can be to stop a girl in the street and talk to her (I see your from the NYC area too so you know what i mean) for a girl to stop and talk she has to be physically attracted to you from the get go.

Ive picked up girls off the street walking but each and every single time, they gave me the eye and smile so that was my que.
 

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He stops *all* the girls with stuff like "excuse, can i have a word with you" or "Can I have 5 minutes of your time". He's trying to convey like he's a street salesman and desperately trying to collect numbers.

And this is why you need to have openers that sound like you're not attempting to talk to them but just happen to bump into them. I thought his game was ****, but props for trying it so vigorously.
 

YoungSir4sho

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Ha Yup You Are 100percent Correct... Its Hard To Stop A Girl On The Street In Nyc. They Def Have To Give U The Smile... Though Sometimes I Dont Even Wait For The Smile And Just Approach.. Few Times It Has Worked But Only Cuz She Liked How I Looked. I Give Him A For Effort Tho Lol But He Def Is Not A Player Lmaoo
 

In2theGame

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YoungSir4sho said:
Ha Yup You Are 100percent Correct... Its Hard To Stop A Girl On The Street In Nyc. They Def Have To Give U The Smile... Though Sometimes I Dont Even Wait For The Smile And Just Approach.. Few Times It Has Worked But Only Cuz She Liked How I Looked. I Give Him A For Effort Tho Lol But He Def Is Not A Player Lmaoo
Nah He's no player at all. Look at his jeans hanging down his ass and that loose sweater, I mean you can get away with all that but you have to be Juelz Santana lol I bet if you give him a good tape up hair cut some decent looking shades, nice fitted jeans with some diesels dark brownish/black, a whte/ sky blue button down collar shirt, decent cologne (Curve, Cool Water, Gio) I BET you they would find him WAY more appealing.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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