"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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DayGame Video of some guy Approaching girls for 8mins straight..What did he do wrong?

YoungSir4sho

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http://www.worldstarhiphop.com/videos/video.php?v=wshh6AC39fmxlXc7N7gv

To be honest i give him props for keep approaching even tho i know its a contest. thats how we got to look at it. It's all about numbers.. meaning its a numbers game.. The more u apporach, u are bound to get a few numbers out of 20 approaches.. So where did he go wrong at??? I usually do the same by saying whats ur name but im also going to put my hand so they can shake it also. and i will not tell them they are gorgeous.

Also around the end, the guy asks her can he get a kiss. She said y, if he wouldve gave a better answer would he have gotten it???
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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In2theGame

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HORRIBLE. No style, no flavor, no sex appeal. All these girls shot this dude down because he really didnt present himself in a smooth way and not attracted to style. You know how tough it can be to stop a girl in the street and talk to her (I see your from the NYC area too so you know what i mean) for a girl to stop and talk she has to be physically attracted to you from the get go.

Ive picked up girls off the street walking but each and every single time, they gave me the eye and smile so that was my que.
 

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He stops *all* the girls with stuff like "excuse, can i have a word with you" or "Can I have 5 minutes of your time". He's trying to convey like he's a street salesman and desperately trying to collect numbers.

And this is why you need to have openers that sound like you're not attempting to talk to them but just happen to bump into them. I thought his game was ****, but props for trying it so vigorously.
 

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Ha Yup You Are 100percent Correct... Its Hard To Stop A Girl On The Street In Nyc. They Def Have To Give U The Smile... Though Sometimes I Dont Even Wait For The Smile And Just Approach.. Few Times It Has Worked But Only Cuz She Liked How I Looked. I Give Him A For Effort Tho Lol But He Def Is Not A Player Lmaoo
 

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YoungSir4sho said:
Ha Yup You Are 100percent Correct... Its Hard To Stop A Girl On The Street In Nyc. They Def Have To Give U The Smile... Though Sometimes I Dont Even Wait For The Smile And Just Approach.. Few Times It Has Worked But Only Cuz She Liked How I Looked. I Give Him A For Effort Tho Lol But He Def Is Not A Player Lmaoo
Nah He's no player at all. Look at his jeans hanging down his ass and that loose sweater, I mean you can get away with all that but you have to be Juelz Santana lol I bet if you give him a good tape up hair cut some decent looking shades, nice fitted jeans with some diesels dark brownish/black, a whte/ sky blue button down collar shirt, decent cologne (Curve, Cool Water, Gio) I BET you they would find him WAY more appealing.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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