"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Day gaming a new town

Bassmasterzac

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Just moved to south florida. Its crawling with gorgeous, shallow women. I love it, but it seems my people skills suck.

What are the rules of engagement in a public area?

How do i pick up women on the beach?

How do you properly get a number and score a date?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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jurry

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Gorgeous shallow women hahaha..

As far as getting the number, apparently you just go up and ask for it. Or tell them to come with u to go get a drink.
 

Bassmasterzac

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You like that? Lol

Thanks for the obvious man, you're telling me no rapport or anything? I dont really have experience cold approaching. Im a pretty straight forward, confident guy, though. Maybe i should just be myself. But sometimes i find it awkward like on the beach i mean how do i approach without seeming creepy?

As much as i love to drink im only 19 so i cant pull them one though im dying to be able to!
 

Peterpack

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Mate, either you get out there and just have a go and see how things pan out and adjust accordingly

Or if you do want some 'technique training' i would suggest Date against the machine by daygame.com it's a good basic program for how to cold approach women during the day
 

apprenticedj

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If you want to day game you simply need to do the following:

Get yourself in a positive mood, basically get happy. Turn on some good music, get pumped.

Put on some sharp clothes, get a haircut, shave or trim up your facial hair.

You're young so I would say hit the local mall. Make sure your disposition seems happy and positive (not too happy, ie deranged). Make a few laps and work on making eye contact, smiling and saying hello to the lovely young ladies you see.

If they return the smile and hello, stop them and engage.

You have a great reason for talking, you're new in town and looking for fun stuff to do. After they make a few suggestions, you'll have to keep them talking by asking about the places they recommend, ask them if they would be willing to be your tour guide.

Get the digits and move on the next one. If a girl finds you attractive don't worry about being "creepy". But I would advise staying within reason, if you yourself are a 6, than start with 5's and 6's, extremely hot chicks will likely give you the cold shoulder as they get approached ALL THE TIME.

Best of luck buddy.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Bassmasterzac

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That's good advice. So, just say "hey" and then what would be a good opener? Should i initiate kino? Should i pay them a compliment? How long should i talk to them before asking digits? And can i do the same thing at the beach?
 
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