"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Day gaming a new town

Bassmasterzac

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Just moved to south florida. Its crawling with gorgeous, shallow women. I love it, but it seems my people skills suck.

What are the rules of engagement in a public area?

How do i pick up women on the beach?

How do you properly get a number and score a date?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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jurry

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Gorgeous shallow women hahaha..

As far as getting the number, apparently you just go up and ask for it. Or tell them to come with u to go get a drink.
 

Bassmasterzac

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You like that? Lol

Thanks for the obvious man, you're telling me no rapport or anything? I dont really have experience cold approaching. Im a pretty straight forward, confident guy, though. Maybe i should just be myself. But sometimes i find it awkward like on the beach i mean how do i approach without seeming creepy?

As much as i love to drink im only 19 so i cant pull them one though im dying to be able to!
 

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Mate, either you get out there and just have a go and see how things pan out and adjust accordingly

Or if you do want some 'technique training' i would suggest Date against the machine by daygame.com it's a good basic program for how to cold approach women during the day
 

apprenticedj

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If you want to day game you simply need to do the following:

Get yourself in a positive mood, basically get happy. Turn on some good music, get pumped.

Put on some sharp clothes, get a haircut, shave or trim up your facial hair.

You're young so I would say hit the local mall. Make sure your disposition seems happy and positive (not too happy, ie deranged). Make a few laps and work on making eye contact, smiling and saying hello to the lovely young ladies you see.

If they return the smile and hello, stop them and engage.

You have a great reason for talking, you're new in town and looking for fun stuff to do. After they make a few suggestions, you'll have to keep them talking by asking about the places they recommend, ask them if they would be willing to be your tour guide.

Get the digits and move on the next one. If a girl finds you attractive don't worry about being "creepy". But I would advise staying within reason, if you yourself are a 6, than start with 5's and 6's, extremely hot chicks will likely give you the cold shoulder as they get approached ALL THE TIME.

Best of luck buddy.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Bassmasterzac

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That's good advice. So, just say "hey" and then what would be a good opener? Should i initiate kino? Should i pay them a compliment? How long should i talk to them before asking digits? And can i do the same thing at the beach?
 
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