Heres the dilemma, I'm on the street I see a HB from far away and I want to open her. I know what to say, but shes ****ing far away, so now I have to chase her down. This is bad especially if shes walking very fast because then I seem like a stalker/chaser/creep. This sucks since its hard to find HB's that are openable during day game. Any tips on stopping them or delivery of the opener during day game while ON THE STREET (its different than if you were in a store because then they're usually stationary).
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
day game prob - I feel like I'm chasing her
- Thread starter Bilogomja
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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Well yesterday, I was at the supermarket and this mom was there in the ice cream section telling her little boy that "this is the best ice cream" pointing to it, and I interjected and pointed to the hagen daas ice cream saying, "Actually, This is the best ice cream" And I went into how it's more expensive but you get what you pay for etc. I normally don't go for women with kids but we talked for at least 2 minutes. I think she was married. So I just heard what she said, and followed up on it. Not hard at all.Bilogomja said:
On the street I'd just ask for directions or what time is it.
I figured it out! I went out again today and was faced with the same dilemma multiple times. I got fed up with the stalker appearance (trying to catch up to them via walking WASN'T WORKING), so when I saw this one HB7.5 way ahead of me, I just RAN UP TO HER and IMMEDIATELY delivered my opener. To my surprise she was very receptive. Too bad after I delivered it I got extremely nervous and ran off lol. 3 approaches down, 1997 left to go (before they start to count)