Heres the dilemma, I'm on the street I see a HB from far away and I want to open her. I know what to say, but shes ****ing far away, so now I have to chase her down. This is bad especially if shes walking very fast because then I seem like a stalker/chaser/creep. This sucks since its hard to find HB's that are openable during day game. Any tips on stopping them or delivery of the opener during day game while ON THE STREET (its different than if you were in a store because then they're usually stationary).
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
day game prob - I feel like I'm chasing her
- Thread starter Bilogomja
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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Well yesterday, I was at the supermarket and this mom was there in the ice cream section telling her little boy that "this is the best ice cream" pointing to it, and I interjected and pointed to the hagen daas ice cream saying, "Actually, This is the best ice cream" And I went into how it's more expensive but you get what you pay for etc. I normally don't go for women with kids but we talked for at least 2 minutes. I think she was married. So I just heard what she said, and followed up on it. Not hard at all.Bilogomja said:
On the street I'd just ask for directions or what time is it.
I figured it out! I went out again today and was faced with the same dilemma multiple times. I got fed up with the stalker appearance (trying to catch up to them via walking WASN'T WORKING), so when I saw this one HB7.5 way ahead of me, I just RAN UP TO HER and IMMEDIATELY delivered my opener. To my surprise she was very receptive. Too bad after I delivered it I got extremely nervous and ran off lol. 3 approaches down, 1997 left to go (before they start to count)