"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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thissean

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So my day game at school has been meh. I notice that a lot of the girls sitting around are generally waiting for someone, so when I open it usually flops. Anyone else notice this? Is there a place on campus that is good for day game? I was thinking maybe around the food court. any ideas?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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DonJoseCantosie

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The food courts are excellent. One thing you can do is actually sit with the girl u approach and her friends. Less likely to get a flake. Its rare to get rejected off sitting with them. Just remember, u need to let the girl u like know, that its not a platonic thing.
 

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Most places on campus are good for approaching. Ive approached girls in the library, the quad, food court, after class, walking to class, study room, student union...

make eye contact then go direct. forget all about the indirect opinion openers bull****.
 

coolness89

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ArMo said:
Most places on campus are good for approaching. Ive approached girls in the library, the quad, food court, after class, walking to class, study room, student union...

make eye contact then go direct. forget all about the indirect opinion openers bull****.
what should you talk about then?
the only thing i can think of is "hey, I like that ______(shirt/scarf or whatever) you are wearing, where did ya get it?"
 
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