"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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So my day game at school has been meh. I notice that a lot of the girls sitting around are generally waiting for someone, so when I open it usually flops. Anyone else notice this? Is there a place on campus that is good for day game? I was thinking maybe around the food court. any ideas?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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The food courts are excellent. One thing you can do is actually sit with the girl u approach and her friends. Less likely to get a flake. Its rare to get rejected off sitting with them. Just remember, u need to let the girl u like know, that its not a platonic thing.
 
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Most places on campus are good for approaching. Ive approached girls in the library, the quad, food court, after class, walking to class, study room, student union...

make eye contact then go direct. forget all about the indirect opinion openers bull****.
 
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ArMo said:
Most places on campus are good for approaching. Ive approached girls in the library, the quad, food court, after class, walking to class, study room, student union...

make eye contact then go direct. forget all about the indirect opinion openers bull****.
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what should you talk about then?
the only thing i can think of is "hey, I like that ______(shirt/scarf or whatever) you are wearing, where did ya get it?"
 
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