I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Einstein had several wives throughout his lifetime.Boschy said:A funny and DJ-relevant apocryphal story about Albert Einstein:
Sometimes Einsten could be heard having loud arguments with his wife. Which means that even he couldn't figure out women!
Ok, not to be an as*hole, but did Marilyn ever have sex with ol Einstein? No. Women talk like this so they can seem like they're not focused on stupid crap like looks or money. His fame might have been a draw, but that's it. Believe me, I've been out there long enough to know that women care NOT ONE BIT about intelligence.DaVinci said:
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Cause they can't have sex with intelligence. Some AFC's try to use their intelligence to buy the hearts of women, DJ's use their intelliegence more covertly, to influence the hearts of women, and to be wise enough to know what the heart desires.far from average said: