Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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A funny and DJ-relevant apocryphal story about Albert Einstein:

Sometimes Einsten could be heard having loud arguments with his wife. Which means that even he couldn't figure out women!

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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Boschy said:
A funny and DJ-relevant apocryphal story about Albert Einstein:

Sometimes Einsten could be heard having loud arguments with his wife. Which means that even he couldn't figure out women!

:D
Einstein had several wives throughout his lifetime.

In one case he lasted less than a month with one, because he travelled overseas the day after the wedding to frolic with the beauty of another women.

Einstein is one of my idols. Dude was lazy as fock, he rejected doing ANYTHING after his day of work was done and did everything in his power to do less in life.
 

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Einstein was indeed The Man.
 

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DaVinci said:
Lets take another Example of a famous mind. Einstien. Marilyn Monroe said once he was the sexiest man she knew.
Ok, not to be an as*hole, but did Marilyn ever have sex with ol Einstein? No. Women talk like this so they can seem like they're not focused on stupid crap like looks or money. His fame might have been a draw, but that's it. Believe me, I've been out there long enough to know that women care NOT ONE BIT about intelligence.
 

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I don't think obsessions are necessarily bad as without them I think people can be without motivation. I'm pretty skeptical that they can even be completely eliminated, and I usually don't find them to be a problem at all as long as I balance them off against each other. For instance, if I'm thinking about a girl too much I'll spend more time 'courting' other girls I find hot, if I'm drinking too much with friends I'll shift to the obsession of the gym and fitness, and if that becomes too much of an obsession, well, it's self-explanatory.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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far from average said:
Ok, not to be an as*hole, but did Marilyn ever have sex with ol Einstein? No. Women talk like this so they can seem like they're not focused on stupid crap like looks or money. His fame might have been a draw, but that's it. Believe me, I've been out there long enough to know that women care NOT ONE BIT about intelligence.
Cause they can't have sex with intelligence. Some AFC's try to use their intelligence to buy the hearts of women, DJ's use their intelliegence more covertly, to influence the hearts of women, and to be wise enough to know what the heart desires.

Intelliegence can buy what the heart desires, or attract situations where intelligence can shine through.
 
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