"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Read more...

DaVinci's Steps to a better Don Juan

Boschy

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Mar 28, 2006
Messages
343
Reaction score
7
Location
Melbourne, Australia
A funny and DJ-relevant apocryphal story about Albert Einstein:

Sometimes Einsten could be heard having loud arguments with his wife. Which means that even he couldn't figure out women!

:D
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

Read more...

flippinfreak

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 3, 2006
Messages
891
Reaction score
7
Location
Canada
Boschy said:
A funny and DJ-relevant apocryphal story about Albert Einstein:

Sometimes Einsten could be heard having loud arguments with his wife. Which means that even he couldn't figure out women!

:D
Einstein had several wives throughout his lifetime.

In one case he lasted less than a month with one, because he travelled overseas the day after the wedding to frolic with the beauty of another women.

Einstein is one of my idols. Dude was lazy as fock, he rejected doing ANYTHING after his day of work was done and did everything in his power to do less in life.
 

Boschy

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Mar 28, 2006
Messages
343
Reaction score
7
Location
Melbourne, Australia
Einstein was indeed The Man.
 

far from average

Don Juan
Joined
Apr 22, 2006
Messages
71
Reaction score
1
DaVinci said:
Lets take another Example of a famous mind. Einstien. Marilyn Monroe said once he was the sexiest man she knew.
Ok, not to be an as*hole, but did Marilyn ever have sex with ol Einstein? No. Women talk like this so they can seem like they're not focused on stupid crap like looks or money. His fame might have been a draw, but that's it. Believe me, I've been out there long enough to know that women care NOT ONE BIT about intelligence.
 

Demonslut

Banned
Joined
May 16, 2006
Messages
13
Reaction score
1
I don't think obsessions are necessarily bad as without them I think people can be without motivation. I'm pretty skeptical that they can even be completely eliminated, and I usually don't find them to be a problem at all as long as I balance them off against each other. For instance, if I'm thinking about a girl too much I'll spend more time 'courting' other girls I find hot, if I'm drinking too much with friends I'll shift to the obsession of the gym and fitness, and if that becomes too much of an obsession, well, it's self-explanatory.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

flippinfreak

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 3, 2006
Messages
891
Reaction score
7
Location
Canada
far from average said:
Ok, not to be an as*hole, but did Marilyn ever have sex with ol Einstein? No. Women talk like this so they can seem like they're not focused on stupid crap like looks or money. His fame might have been a draw, but that's it. Believe me, I've been out there long enough to know that women care NOT ONE BIT about intelligence.
Cause they can't have sex with intelligence. Some AFC's try to use their intelligence to buy the hearts of women, DJ's use their intelliegence more covertly, to influence the hearts of women, and to be wise enough to know what the heart desires.

Intelliegence can buy what the heart desires, or attract situations where intelligence can shine through.
 
Top