"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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David Spade's way of getting hot girls

oscarxp25

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This guy's resume is quite impressive. Here is how he gets women...good and simple advice


Once they get that whiff that you’re crazy about them, they move on in their heads, like, ‘Got this one. Next...’ If you play it a little more straight and take your time to see if there’s anything real there?


that was an excerpt from the summary of the show, that I missed today. Anyone actually hear the whole interview?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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VladPatton

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Spade's gonna be on Jimmy Fallon tonight.
 

Deep Dish

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I take it you’re talking about his appearance on Howard Stern, which was today. Here’s the full interview:

http://youtu.be/lhsiO_ohBJc

(Your welcome. :D)

Also, the fuller quote is:
Once they get that whiff that you’re crazy about them, they move on in their heads, like, “Got this one. Next...” If you play it a little more straight and take your time to see if there’s anything real there? Of course they’re sexy, of course it’s fun fücking. That’s the easy part. But the other 23 hours and 59 minutes...​
True words. I also found one quote from an interview with OK magazine: “Everyone is so weird in L.A. that if you’re somewhat normal, it’s exotic. That has been the only reason some girls have dated me.”
 
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