"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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David Spade's way of getting hot girls

oscarxp25

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This guy's resume is quite impressive. Here is how he gets women...good and simple advice


Once they get that whiff that you’re crazy about them, they move on in their heads, like, ‘Got this one. Next...’ If you play it a little more straight and take your time to see if there’s anything real there?


that was an excerpt from the summary of the show, that I missed today. Anyone actually hear the whole interview?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Spade's gonna be on Jimmy Fallon tonight.
 

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I take it you’re talking about his appearance on Howard Stern, which was today. Here’s the full interview:

http://youtu.be/lhsiO_ohBJc

(Your welcome. :D)

Also, the fuller quote is:
Once they get that whiff that you’re crazy about them, they move on in their heads, like, “Got this one. Next...” If you play it a little more straight and take your time to see if there’s anything real there? Of course they’re sexy, of course it’s fun fücking. That’s the easy part. But the other 23 hours and 59 minutes...​
True words. I also found one quote from an interview with OK magazine: “Everyone is so weird in L.A. that if you’re somewhat normal, it’s exotic. That has been the only reason some girls have dated me.”
 
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