"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
David D's Advanced Dating Techniques CD/Dvd?
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Kaine
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Kaine
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David isn't exactly eye candy, in the DVD you can watch him drink water, sit down and walk around.
And if I'm not mistaken unless you pirated it you should get a folder with notes and diagrams.
The only good reason would be if there was a strong element of body language demonstrated, or special features of him convincing a group of 10 HB10s to have a lesbian orgy using only ****y and funny while suspended over a pool of sharks with frikkin lasers on their heads.............
which there isn't.
Blue Phoenix
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The audio version is the same as the visual one! Buy the one you want.
Actually it's interesting to see him talking, etc. On the other hand, the audio one is good because you can listen to it everywere!
smoke city
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1. none of them is terribly good-looking (some are really not at all)
2. very well-controlled body language and appearance.
3. super successful with women.
Pay close attention and the visuals do make some difference.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I see you noticed that too.Originally posted by Sazuki
Just know david thinks we are lumbering gene robots, so he's a complete atheist, dont fall of your faith
I downloaded all of the audio series and almost all of the interview series for free off Winmx. Yeah, I know, I know, but he makes way more money than me anyway so who cares.
The audio series is good, but I think the interviews are 10 times better. You really get a feel for their personality, attitude, self esteem, self respect, confidence, how they think, how they act and on and on. Its really good stuff. It made a big difference for me.
Kaine
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You are paying x dollars for something that is providing specialised advice.
If they were demonstrating kino, or specific body language techniques VISUALLY, or even footage of them gaming girls then it would be valuable and would be worth whatever extra you paying for a shiny DVD version.
Otherwise if you want to pay more so you can analyse guys talking in a public speaking situation then so be it, then send me the money and I'll email you a generic pdf on body language.
smoke city
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Obviously I wanted to pay more, because I did.
And I got a great deal more out of it than I would have
without the visuals.
I recommend it to anyone.
As for techniques--reading a pdf about specific body language techniques, [ or salsa dancing, or public speaking, say...] is less valuable than *seeing examples of people who have adopted these things in life. These are things that you want to be part of you, not a list of routines to follow like a robot.
Now is that all, Kaine, or would you like to arm wrestle?
That is TOTAL BS.
There is way more to developing your body language character than using specific tricks like using kino while gaming girls. We’re trying to develop a whole new persona, not learn a new tip or trick.
Their underlying character is the foundation that makes them attractive and that comes out through their body language. You need to see how they carry themselves all the time, in day-to-day situations to help understand their personality and what makes them attractive, not just seeing them using kino or gaming girls.
Kaine
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Smoke City: How about submission wrestling?
Oh if anyone is interested in purchasing it from me give me a pm, why pay full price! I got it when it first came out, its video but on cd
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Gangster Of Love
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I originally was sent the CD's by mistake, then they sent the DVD's. I was glad I went with the DVD set. If you are forkin' out that much money, go for the much better value, and not just for price.
The way I see male and female interactions now has totally changed since watching the dvd's which I constantly review. What David says is right 'it's like having a pair of 3-D glasses'.
I get aproached by women nearly every time I go out at weekends because my confidence has skyrocketed since watching the dvd's. Plus you realise just how many wussies there are out there which makes things even better for those in the know.
cannibustacap
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I have seen his stuff and to put it short, it got me into the PU scene. It is especially good for people who are absolute beginers.
For the most part, you can find a lot of info on here. I found that I had to listen to the Audio series a few times, not just once. Its like a long course. You have to keep studying it to get an A.
I should probably keep listening but I got lazy.
it also feels awkward listening to this when my roomates are always around.
Once I got the DVD's.. I watch them everyday now. Not because you'll see bodylanguage or anything like that... but just because it makes it MORE interesting and easier for you to learn the stuff. I've noticed that if I listen to the CD and lay on my bed I will easily get distracted and bored. I need a visual there. Now if I watch the DVD it has my attention and I'm watching it and learning more constructively.
Go with the DVD's!
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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