"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
David D's Advanced Dating Techniques CD/Dvd?
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Kaine
Senior Don Juan
Kaine
Senior Don Juan
David isn't exactly eye candy, in the DVD you can watch him drink water, sit down and walk around.
And if I'm not mistaken unless you pirated it you should get a folder with notes and diagrams.
The only good reason would be if there was a strong element of body language demonstrated, or special features of him convincing a group of 10 HB10s to have a lesbian orgy using only ****y and funny while suspended over a pool of sharks with frikkin lasers on their heads.............
which there isn't.
Blue Phoenix
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The audio version is the same as the visual one! Buy the one you want.
Actually it's interesting to see him talking, etc. On the other hand, the audio one is good because you can listen to it everywere!
smoke city
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1. none of them is terribly good-looking (some are really not at all)
2. very well-controlled body language and appearance.
3. super successful with women.
Pay close attention and the visuals do make some difference.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I see you noticed that too.Originally posted by Sazuki
Just know david thinks we are lumbering gene robots, so he's a complete atheist, dont fall of your faith
I downloaded all of the audio series and almost all of the interview series for free off Winmx. Yeah, I know, I know, but he makes way more money than me anyway so who cares.
The audio series is good, but I think the interviews are 10 times better. You really get a feel for their personality, attitude, self esteem, self respect, confidence, how they think, how they act and on and on. Its really good stuff. It made a big difference for me.
Kaine
Senior Don Juan
You are paying x dollars for something that is providing specialised advice.
If they were demonstrating kino, or specific body language techniques VISUALLY, or even footage of them gaming girls then it would be valuable and would be worth whatever extra you paying for a shiny DVD version.
Otherwise if you want to pay more so you can analyse guys talking in a public speaking situation then so be it, then send me the money and I'll email you a generic pdf on body language.
smoke city
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Obviously I wanted to pay more, because I did.
And I got a great deal more out of it than I would have
without the visuals.
I recommend it to anyone.
As for techniques--reading a pdf about specific body language techniques, [ or salsa dancing, or public speaking, say...] is less valuable than *seeing examples of people who have adopted these things in life. These are things that you want to be part of you, not a list of routines to follow like a robot.
Now is that all, Kaine, or would you like to arm wrestle?
That is TOTAL BS.
There is way more to developing your body language character than using specific tricks like using kino while gaming girls. We’re trying to develop a whole new persona, not learn a new tip or trick.
Their underlying character is the foundation that makes them attractive and that comes out through their body language. You need to see how they carry themselves all the time, in day-to-day situations to help understand their personality and what makes them attractive, not just seeing them using kino or gaming girls.
Kaine
Senior Don Juan
Smoke City: How about submission wrestling?
Oh if anyone is interested in purchasing it from me give me a pm, why pay full price! I got it when it first came out, its video but on cd
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Gangster Of Love
Master Don Juan
I originally was sent the CD's by mistake, then they sent the DVD's. I was glad I went with the DVD set. If you are forkin' out that much money, go for the much better value, and not just for price.
The way I see male and female interactions now has totally changed since watching the dvd's which I constantly review. What David says is right 'it's like having a pair of 3-D glasses'.
I get aproached by women nearly every time I go out at weekends because my confidence has skyrocketed since watching the dvd's. Plus you realise just how many wussies there are out there which makes things even better for those in the know.
cannibustacap
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I have seen his stuff and to put it short, it got me into the PU scene. It is especially good for people who are absolute beginers.
For the most part, you can find a lot of info on here. I found that I had to listen to the Audio series a few times, not just once. Its like a long course. You have to keep studying it to get an A.
I should probably keep listening but I got lazy.
it also feels awkward listening to this when my roomates are always around.
Once I got the DVD's.. I watch them everyday now. Not because you'll see bodylanguage or anything like that... but just because it makes it MORE interesting and easier for you to learn the stuff. I've noticed that if I listen to the CD and lay on my bed I will easily get distracted and bored. I need a visual there. Now if I watch the DVD it has my attention and I'm watching it and learning more constructively.
Go with the DVD's!
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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