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Thought you guys would find this relatively interesting.
Kudos,
Matt
Thought you guys would find this relatively interesting.
Kudos,
Matt
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
It doesn't mean he is a fraud.NickBe said:it is but that doesn't mean he isn't a fraud.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Yet another sad case of a close minded individual.NickBe said:So you assume all internet marketing is a scam? no such thing as a legitimate internet business?
My books are sold on amazon.com (no they are not internet marketing guides) kind of hard to scam people by selling books on Amazon.com, Isn't it?
They key to internet marketing is emails, legally obtained through a opt-in e-mail list. '
I couldn't agree with you more Roullete even though he is a fraud he is a marketing genius.
1) Just over two and a half years.How long have you been running your business?
How much time to do you invest in it?
What is it about and how much do you make from it?
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Absolutely. I'm not a fan of his seduction material and I don't believe he's all that successful with women, but there's no denying that he makes a fvcking fortune from it and that all comes down to great marketing!Bonhomme said:His internet marketing is pretty effective.
DYD makes $20 million dollars per year. Since Eben's products are digital or just CD's, the overhead is extremely little. That $20 million is pretty much pure profit. He's got about 50 employees who all work remotely from home... but that's nothing considering he probably pays them peanuts.Jariel said:Absolutely. I'm not a fan of his seduction material and I don't believe he's all that successful with women, but there's no denying that he makes a fvcking fortune from it and that all comes down to great marketing!
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.