"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

David DeAngelo is not a player

DarkLight

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 21, 2005
Messages
618
Reaction score
4
Age
46
Location
SoCal
who gives a flying sh!t either way.

So he's a douche hustler of a business man!?
So he's a well educated cat, in the dynamics of attraction!?

Whatever... If you gleam some gems from his sh!t, more power to the both of you. If you didn't get sh!t from his sh!t... move on.

Relax... the hostility is juvenile.
Should be focused on your own game... and becoming your own king.
Tripping over DD or any other cat is petty lil boy sh!t.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

Read more...

Francisco d'Anconia

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 10, 2003
Messages
15,481
Reaction score
65
Location
Galt's Gulch
SamePendo said:
Uhm... no?

Don't stick your insecurities into rafcs. Seek help in curing your insecurities.

One can get that ***** even by being a "broke ass loser". But he who does is a fool, and should know better than to limit his success in life to just women and should seek to fulfill his goals and dreams, as a man.
:up:
 

Call_Me_Daddy

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 28, 2006
Messages
1,368
Reaction score
7
Ace of Flames said:
Of course, you have to give the absolute extreme for your point to be valid. >_>

Its highly unlikely that anyone here is all three of those things. And even if they are, you can change the first two.

You're forgetting that part of, no, the main part of being a DJ is self-improvement. So alongside learning to be C+F and such, you should be working out and striving for a better career. Once you have all these things going for you, then the girls will be all over you.
Yeah, but alot of guys are treating the symptoms by using C+F... and not curing the disease (their broke ass).

The focus should be on success and not pickup lines and tactics... which is sad to say, this is what the site is currently flooded with.
 

Call_Me_Daddy

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 28, 2006
Messages
1,368
Reaction score
7
SamePendo said:
Uhm... no?

Don't stick your insecurities into rafcs. Seek help in curing your insecurities.

One can get that ***** even by being a "broke ass loser". But he who does is a fool, and should know better than to limit his success in life to just women and should seek to fulfill his goals and dreams, as a man.
I was using extreemes to make a point. I do have insecurities, but being broke is not one of them. Since I'm not.
 

Ricky

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 9, 2002
Messages
4,136
Reaction score
896
Age
52
I actually think David D is a good first starting point for everyone to get the dynamic the way it should be. He is also interesting to listen to, even though he is rehashing stuff now. I do like what he has to say and find his products to be the most interesting to listen to, probably because he likes to read alot of interesting books and gives recommendations on them

Take a look at some of the books he recommends, its good reading.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

Read more...

Derek Flint

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 24, 2002
Messages
1,731
Reaction score
40
Location
Marin County, CA - just North of San Francisco
Just about everyone of these Guru's have some valid advice.

Take what you can from it, use it, and discard the rest.
 

Holland

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 3, 2005
Messages
782
Reaction score
10
Age
39
Location
Holland
David D is no player. He has a GF.

His teachings are good.
You're talking shiit. Shut up please and watch his materials again.
I don't like it when people talk bad about the dude that just happened to totally changed my life. :nono:

Agree with samependo, stop spreading inefficient beliefs and start looking what's going on in reality.
Oow, and get your inner game fixed, it's messed up, that's why you're misinterpreting David D's stuff.
 

Soprano

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 4, 2005
Messages
715
Reaction score
3
ive used a few tips from him and speakers at his seminars successfully..... jus take things for what theyre worth....
 
Top