"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Those of you with daughters (I have three) would you feel comfortable and happy if your little girl gets engaged or married to a member from sosuave?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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speed dawg

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Those of you with daughters (I have three) would you feel comfortable and happy if your little girl gets engaged or married to a member from sosuave?
If I respect him, sure.
 

The Duke

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As long as it wasn't Deesade or Poon. lol
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Alvafe

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last I remember if a dad says he don't like her BF, be sure as hell she will stay with him for a long time, most kids will go against his parents wishes, just to say you don't control me, or because he find if his parent dislike him then you did a good thing

so what is the point of the question anyway?
 

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My daughter is 13. Last summer she had her first true boyfriend, also 13. Grandson of a huge law enforcement family and as red pill as a little kid can get. The kid completely kept her on her toes. Honestly? I thought it was good for her. They eventually broke up but it was peaceful and mutual. But she till grumbles about him and I think if he came to the door today she would for sure take him back. I've heard her talk about other boys at school being "panzies" and "he's a good friend but I would never date him" has came out of her mouth on several occasions.

My thoughts? It's either this way or the other way. The other way being where she becomes a little b|tch, takes advantage of men, breaks hearts, has kids with some AFC who she divorces and then becomes a single mommy. I think the best thing for her would be to continue to date men like this and then when she is 18, 19, 20, 21 get with some alpha with frame that she can be with the rest of her life and not divorce when she is 35-37.

So short answer, yes, I would welcome her dating guys from here when she is older.
 

donking

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you sure your daughter is not an alpha widow already ;)
 
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