"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Daughters

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Those of you with daughters (I have three) would you feel comfortable and happy if your little girl gets engaged or married to a member from sosuave?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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speed dawg

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Those of you with daughters (I have three) would you feel comfortable and happy if your little girl gets engaged or married to a member from sosuave?
If I respect him, sure.
 

The Duke

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As long as it wasn't Deesade or Poon. lol
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Alvafe

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last I remember if a dad says he don't like her BF, be sure as hell she will stay with him for a long time, most kids will go against his parents wishes, just to say you don't control me, or because he find if his parent dislike him then you did a good thing

so what is the point of the question anyway?
 

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My daughter is 13. Last summer she had her first true boyfriend, also 13. Grandson of a huge law enforcement family and as red pill as a little kid can get. The kid completely kept her on her toes. Honestly? I thought it was good for her. They eventually broke up but it was peaceful and mutual. But she till grumbles about him and I think if he came to the door today she would for sure take him back. I've heard her talk about other boys at school being "panzies" and "he's a good friend but I would never date him" has came out of her mouth on several occasions.

My thoughts? It's either this way or the other way. The other way being where she becomes a little b|tch, takes advantage of men, breaks hearts, has kids with some AFC who she divorces and then becomes a single mommy. I think the best thing for her would be to continue to date men like this and then when she is 18, 19, 20, 21 get with some alpha with frame that she can be with the rest of her life and not divorce when she is 35-37.

So short answer, yes, I would welcome her dating guys from here when she is older.
 

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you sure your daughter is not an alpha widow already ;)
 
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