You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
He probably should have just stayed in the country he was deployed in poor old buzzard.Potter, a World War II veteran
That's true. Maybe you and a few of the others here who lets say are, how do I put this without sounding like an ass...a little sensitive to Western gender dynamic reality could post some articles of women behaving exemplary in regards to red pill ideology?synergy1 said:Do those ever get posted here? no.
My life thesis is simple - people can be ****ty. men, women, children, etc. To me, its not gender specific. Part of what makes me who I am is dealing with the ****ty side of women - I have been hurt just as often as anyone else here. On the same token, I have had the experience of meeting some great women that give me confidence in knowing that diligence, patience, and persistence will result in meeting a cool chick.( . )( . ) said:That's true. Maybe you and a few of the others here who lets say are, how do I put this without sounding like an ass...a little sensitive to Western gender dynamic reality could post some articles of women behaving exemplary in regards to red pill ideology?
I'm not being a smart ass either, I'd honestly like to see that. If all these guys can as you say cherry pick to prove a point, there's nothing stopping you or anyone else from offsetting that.
Just a suggestion.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Yes it has, but chained hypergamy serves the human race better. As a matter of fact unchained hypergamy destroys it but that's for another thread. Don't get me wrong I capitalize on feral hypergamy as much as the next red pill man but without sounding like I'm patting myself on the back I suspect I would have had just as much fun had hypergamy been chained as it was over half a century ago, maybe even more so.synergy1 said:hypergamy seems cruel, but its function has served the human race well.