Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
He probably should have just stayed in the country he was deployed in poor old buzzard.Potter, a World War II veteran
That's true. Maybe you and a few of the others here who lets say are, how do I put this without sounding like an ass...a little sensitive to Western gender dynamic reality could post some articles of women behaving exemplary in regards to red pill ideology?synergy1 said:Do those ever get posted here? no.
My life thesis is simple - people can be ****ty. men, women, children, etc. To me, its not gender specific. Part of what makes me who I am is dealing with the ****ty side of women - I have been hurt just as often as anyone else here. On the same token, I have had the experience of meeting some great women that give me confidence in knowing that diligence, patience, and persistence will result in meeting a cool chick.( . )( . ) said:That's true. Maybe you and a few of the others here who lets say are, how do I put this without sounding like an ass...a little sensitive to Western gender dynamic reality could post some articles of women behaving exemplary in regards to red pill ideology?
I'm not being a smart ass either, I'd honestly like to see that. If all these guys can as you say cherry pick to prove a point, there's nothing stopping you or anyone else from offsetting that.
Just a suggestion.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Yes it has, but chained hypergamy serves the human race better. As a matter of fact unchained hypergamy destroys it but that's for another thread. Don't get me wrong I capitalize on feral hypergamy as much as the next red pill man but without sounding like I'm patting myself on the back I suspect I would have had just as much fun had hypergamy been chained as it was over half a century ago, maybe even more so.synergy1 said:hypergamy seems cruel, but its function has served the human race well.