Scaramouche
Master Don Juan
Dear Julie Baby,
For what it is worth you have my respect.
For what it is worth you have my respect.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
It's worth alot, Scara.Scaramouche said:Dear Julie Baby,
For what it is worth you have my respect.
Somewhere Liberace is smiling.Scaramouche said:Dear Julie Baby,
For what it is worth you have my respect.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
You know who gets all worked up like this? Chicks.Julius_Seizeher said:Lastly, to answer your slanderous attack of my manhood, listen up: I grew up on a farm, which means I was tougher at 10 years old than you are now. I went into the Marines right out of high school, just in time for 9/11 and the war. In the war, I eventually led younger Marines into combat.
So let me ask you, did you ever lead Marines into battle? Did you ever kill a man? I know you didn't, you're too much of a pvss. You are not half the man I am, I say this because it is a TRUTH that I have earned.
There's truth to this.f283000 said:We have to remember that women are hardwired to look to men as their leader. If a woman is with you it's because she saw some qualities in you which make her want to be led by you in a relationship.
Never treat a woman any better or differently because of her wealth. You will stand out from every other guy she's come in contact with. In fact don't even mention her wealth, never bring it up, ignore it. Treat her like she's your average 9-5 worker, treat her normal.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
sodbuster said:As long as I'm making mine, I don't care one way or the other. As long as I have my office, I can leave at a moments notice. BUT I'd never be in a relationship where she has control of the money and the puzzy.