I have a friend of mine that refuses to date within her circles because the men that would ask her out, from that group, had already dated other women of the same circle...so one could understand how could make her feel uncomfortable?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Dating within social circles
- Thread starter ThisNThat
- Start date
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
youngprodigy
Don Juan
That's their ego. They don't wanna seem inferior to another women by taking whats left after they're done (said from a girl).
Also there's this whole thing about kiss and tell. When dating within the same social circle, word gets around of what they have been up to. But by dating outside of the circle, even if the man is of low value, they have less to lose and can stay confidential. I believe this is how women don't get caught as often as males when it comes to promiscuous behaviour, they play it smarter
Also there's this whole thing about kiss and tell. When dating within the same social circle, word gets around of what they have been up to. But by dating outside of the circle, even if the man is of low value, they have less to lose and can stay confidential. I believe this is how women don't get caught as often as males when it comes to promiscuous behaviour, they play it smarter
Yeah, I noticed women are more covert-like when it comes to dating. Some have even admitted to traveling 2 to 3 hours outside of their city because too many people know her...usually this happens in a smaller community.
Single women tend to use smaller cities as places to "hang their hats", but won't participate in any local community events going on during the weekends...they typically have most of their friends outside of the state even and travel a lot to those places. This is usually indicated by the amount of FB photos they have of themselves traveling outside of the area.
