I have a friend of mine that refuses to date within her circles because the men that would ask her out, from that group, had already dated other women of the same circle...so one could understand how could make her feel uncomfortable?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Dating within social circles
- Thread starter ThisNThat
- Start date
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
youngprodigy
Don Juan
That's their ego. They don't wanna seem inferior to another women by taking whats left after they're done (said from a girl).
Also there's this whole thing about kiss and tell. When dating within the same social circle, word gets around of what they have been up to. But by dating outside of the circle, even if the man is of low value, they have less to lose and can stay confidential. I believe this is how women don't get caught as often as males when it comes to promiscuous behaviour, they play it smarter
Also there's this whole thing about kiss and tell. When dating within the same social circle, word gets around of what they have been up to. But by dating outside of the circle, even if the man is of low value, they have less to lose and can stay confidential. I believe this is how women don't get caught as often as males when it comes to promiscuous behaviour, they play it smarter
Yeah, I noticed women are more covert-like when it comes to dating. Some have even admitted to traveling 2 to 3 hours outside of their city because too many people know her...usually this happens in a smaller community.
Single women tend to use smaller cities as places to "hang their hats", but won't participate in any local community events going on during the weekends...they typically have most of their friends outside of the state even and travel a lot to those places. This is usually indicated by the amount of FB photos they have of themselves traveling outside of the area.
