I have a friend of mine that refuses to date within her circles because the men that would ask her out, from that group, had already dated other women of the same circle...so one could understand how could make her feel uncomfortable?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Dating within social circles
- Thread starter ThisNThat
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
youngprodigy
Don Juan
That's their ego. They don't wanna seem inferior to another women by taking whats left after they're done (said from a girl).
Also there's this whole thing about kiss and tell. When dating within the same social circle, word gets around of what they have been up to. But by dating outside of the circle, even if the man is of low value, they have less to lose and can stay confidential. I believe this is how women don't get caught as often as males when it comes to promiscuous behaviour, they play it smarter
Also there's this whole thing about kiss and tell. When dating within the same social circle, word gets around of what they have been up to. But by dating outside of the circle, even if the man is of low value, they have less to lose and can stay confidential. I believe this is how women don't get caught as often as males when it comes to promiscuous behaviour, they play it smarter
Yeah, I noticed women are more covert-like when it comes to dating. Some have even admitted to traveling 2 to 3 hours outside of their city because too many people know her...usually this happens in a smaller community.
Single women tend to use smaller cities as places to "hang their hats", but won't participate in any local community events going on during the weekends...they typically have most of their friends outside of the state even and travel a lot to those places. This is usually indicated by the amount of FB photos they have of themselves traveling outside of the area.
