"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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wonderer

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I've come across a website where people rate you against 3 criteria on photos you upload.

I uploaded two photos and wanted to see the results from the site. (see attached)

for optical glasses I got: smart 76%, trustworthy 51%, attractive 41% percentile

for sunglasses I got: smart 31%, trustworthy 18%, attractive 12% percentile

These are pretty bad results. But I disagree with the website. I believe the sunglasses give mystery and don't give too much away, whereas in the optical glasses I just look way too friendly and happy - a nice guy.

What are your thoughts? These results have made me a little insecure.
 

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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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CuddleJunkie

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Only two things bro:
1. Looks matter little on men.
2. Your second picture is incongruent: bad boy style and a warm smyle don't match too well. That's the problem with the second pic IMO.
 

Konada

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1. Get rid of the facial fats and trim your beard. You have alot of potential.

2. Insecure smile, gives me the 'Please like me' feeling.

3. Looks matter ALOT considering its a first impression you're looking for. You can't project a deep masculine voice or game through pics.
 

wonderer

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1. Get rid of the facial fats and trim your beard. You have alot of potential.

2. Insecure smile, gives me the 'Please like me' feeling.

3. Looks matter ALOT considering its a first impression you're looking for. You can't project a deep masculine voice or game through pics.
On medication at the moment which cause water retention in the face. So maybe gotta take another pic when the meds have finished
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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dustmuffin

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First pic your hand placement is feminine. Trim the beard and put the bow tie in the correct spot. It looks goofy.

You can take a pill for water retention. Ask your doctor about it.
 

MrWood

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interesting concept...

headshot without glasses I scored :
smart 68
trust 74
sexy 80

5 votes.. yep
 

dutchmaster

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lol this things pretty fun actually. just put up a random shot I sent my ex

smart: 21%
Trustworthy 24%
Attractive: 71%

bad boy status oh yeaaaaa. too bad it's only off 5 votes, gotta keep voting on others to get a larger test. pretty cool way to gauge how diff styles work for u.

some cute girls you can vote on to.. In custom notes I'm leaving them my instagram and rating them very attractive.. lets see maybe I can close 1 on here lol
 
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Konada

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Tried it out, pretty fun but I can see how it becomes addictive like crack to promote narcissism as well.

I scored
Smart: 90%
Trustworthy: 86%
Attractive: 76%

On my recent profile picture. 20 votes.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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