almost every chick i try to add on it denies my request. it's like they're waiting for a brad pitt or something? im not ugly or nothing... but they dont seem interested. ive only had like 4 ppl add me, a couple of em were asian and the rest were just silly b!tches who are boring and i dont talk to no more. at least i know if they add me its not cause my pic.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
dating website.. not so good
- Thread starter chance
- Start date
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
SandHawk
Master Don Juan
Why are you on dating sites? And what exactly is the point of this thread?
What are you sending these girls as messages? Because it revolves a lot about HOW you message them, not how you look.
But to be honest, avoid dating sites. There are plenty of females out there to go with, all you have to do is go outside. You can either cold approach, or approach them at social events. Dating sites are places for desperate people who can't meet new people in real life.
What are you sending these girls as messages? Because it revolves a lot about HOW you message them, not how you look.
But to be honest, avoid dating sites. There are plenty of females out there to go with, all you have to do is go outside. You can either cold approach, or approach them at social events. Dating sites are places for desperate people who can't meet new people in real life.
tony-montana
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dunno about desperate. theres alot of good lookin girls on it. and it doesnt let you send a msg.. it just lets you choose a request like "i like your profile and want to get to know you" and they have to click accept. kinda sucks you cant msg them first. only after they accept.
cavedweller
Don Juan
You can check out a couple of 100% free sites:
plentyoffish
matchdoctor
Lots of women on them.
cavedweller
plentyoffish
matchdoctor
Lots of women on them.
cavedweller
well im on a pretty good one but they are really pick the women. i mean damn, ive added over 50 ppl i swear and most decline even though everyone i add almost has the same interests as me and i dont even choose the really good looking ones. obviously they are lookin at my pic more than my interests. im not the best lookin guy in the world but ive had quite a few hotties in my time.. bet if i made a fake one with a hot guy, saying im a bank manager theyd add me.
i think they are more pickier online than in real life! thinkin about just closing my account.. ive had better luck in real life.
i think they are more pickier online than in real life! thinkin about just closing my account.. ive had better luck in real life.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
cavedweller
Don Juan
chance,
Two ideas for you:
1..Check out what the other men (your age) are posting in their profile and comments..
2..If no luck you may want to try another web site.
cavedweller
Two ideas for you:
1..Check out what the other men (your age) are posting in their profile and comments..
2..If no luck you may want to try another web site.
cavedweller
DonGorgon
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chance said:
those sites like most other social gathering things are designed to give women the opportunity to sit and select only the top 10% of males... now is a great time to be female.. due to male over population ... most of those sits let women on free and charge men cause women dont need those sites they can get men any time any day .. but for men its much harder..
many of the more expensive site have been sued to for placing fake actores in there to respond positively to desperate males who have payed alot of money for the service...lolool
lol it's really funny and strange. i got all these girls who would of seen my request but don't respond (cause you can just click reject or accept - but they choose to sit online and let me wonder) - then you have the girls who on their profile state how badly they wanna find the right guy for a long term relationship with all the similar interests... then when the time comes that you start chatting to them, they're boring and hardly talk, like this girl an hour ago:
me says:
Hello.
maybetomorrow says:
hi
me says:
how come it said your account was suspended ?
me says:
lol
maybetomorrow says:
ive hidden my profile cause i have enough ppl to talk to and i wanted to stop getting requests
me says:
is it really that bad mmm ? lol
me says:
wow, cool i understand.
maybetomorrow says:
not bad, just annoying
me says:
hehe cool
me says:
so, maybe tomorrow what?
me says:
what's gonna happen tomorrow ?
maybetomorrow says:
u never know
she goes offline. barely even started chatting.
why go on these sites if you're gonna be a dumb boring b!tch. i mean, the whole point is to chat, hook up, go on a date, and maybe get a nice relationship going.
me says:
Hello.
maybetomorrow says:
hi
me says:
how come it said your account was suspended ?
me says:
lol
maybetomorrow says:
ive hidden my profile cause i have enough ppl to talk to and i wanted to stop getting requests
me says:
is it really that bad mmm ? lol
me says:
wow, cool i understand.
maybetomorrow says:
not bad, just annoying
me says:
hehe cool
me says:
so, maybe tomorrow what?
me says:
what's gonna happen tomorrow ?
maybetomorrow says:
u never know
she goes offline. barely even started chatting.
why go on these sites if you're gonna be a dumb boring b!tch. i mean, the whole point is to chat, hook up, go on a date, and maybe get a nice relationship going.
Shes not interested in you. Online dating is a looks game, if shes attracted it'll be VERY obvious it'll feel like your not even doing anything and she'll be throwing all these hints and bold statements at you about how hot you are how she wants to touch you, hints about meeting up, sexual talk etc. If you don't look good then work on your body and clothes and get someone to photo shop a perfect picture of you in the mean time.chance said:
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Serg897
Master Don Juan
Try okcupid. I've had some good luck on that website - Since I made a profile in January I've met up with 4 girls, got one lay a few months ago, last night I had a great date with the fourth one.
Make a profile with ONE good picture and keep it that way. I've had success with this formula.
Make a profile with ONE good picture and keep it that way. I've had success with this formula.