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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Originally posted by DannyMagnum
Okay, I was hoping someone could offer some advice on dating this girl I just started seeing.

I used to be afc but I have been reading this site since the summer and working on my game and now things are going much better. I hang out with lots of girls from work and meet at parties, etc and have messed around with a few. I havent been super interested in any of them as a girlfriend and the problem I'm having now is that I don't have much experience with actual dating.

Two fridays ago I met this girl at a club and we danced and talked some, and I got her number as she was leaving. We talked some on teh weekend and suggested we go out for a bite to eat dutring the week. On wednesday I called her and we went out to dinner and went back to her place and just hung out and talked. The date went realy well. Then, Friday we went out to that same club and had a grea time. At the end of the night I went back to her palce and we kissed a little.

Saturday I went out with some coworkers and talked to ehr once during the day. We talked on the phone some on Sunday. I know she likes me and I like her and she suggested i teach her to ski this weekend.

My question is how often should I be calling her? How often should I suggest we hang out? I mean i would like to keep getting to know her and talk to her or see her almsot everytday but that is probably bad technique, u know what i mean.

any advice or links to previous threads would be appreciated. and also this girl is latin and goes to church every sunday so she is pretty traditional about this stuff.

thank you!
-dan
First of all, don't cross post over forums, and you don't ask for advice in this forum. This thread should be merged with the one in discusson.
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Now, you're asking how much you should contact her? Well, everyone's different, but once or twice a week should surfice. Live a life of your own, she's just a small part of it.

Take my hint.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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