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Originally posted by DannyMagnum
Okay, I was hoping someone could offer some advice on dating this girl I just started seeing.

I used to be afc but I have been reading this site since the summer and working on my game and now things are going much better. I hang out with lots of girls from work and meet at parties, etc and have messed around with a few. I havent been super interested in any of them as a girlfriend and the problem I'm having now is that I don't have much experience with actual dating.

Two fridays ago I met this girl at a club and we danced and talked some, and I got her number as she was leaving. We talked some on teh weekend and suggested we go out for a bite to eat dutring the week. On wednesday I called her and we went out to dinner and went back to her place and just hung out and talked. The date went realy well. Then, Friday we went out to that same club and had a grea time. At the end of the night I went back to her palce and we kissed a little.

Saturday I went out with some coworkers and talked to ehr once during the day. We talked on the phone some on Sunday. I know she likes me and I like her and she suggested i teach her to ski this weekend.

My question is how often should I be calling her? How often should I suggest we hang out? I mean i would like to keep getting to know her and talk to her or see her almsot everytday but that is probably bad technique, u know what i mean.

any advice or links to previous threads would be appreciated. and also this girl is latin and goes to church every sunday so she is pretty traditional about this stuff.

thank you!
-dan
First of all, don't cross post over forums, and you don't ask for advice in this forum. This thread should be merged with the one in discusson.
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Now, you're asking how much you should contact her? Well, everyone's different, but once or twice a week should surfice. Live a life of your own, she's just a small part of it.

Take my hint.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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