"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Dating Tips/Rules

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Originally posted by DannyMagnum
Okay, I was hoping someone could offer some advice on dating this girl I just started seeing.

I used to be afc but I have been reading this site since the summer and working on my game and now things are going much better. I hang out with lots of girls from work and meet at parties, etc and have messed around with a few. I havent been super interested in any of them as a girlfriend and the problem I'm having now is that I don't have much experience with actual dating.

Two fridays ago I met this girl at a club and we danced and talked some, and I got her number as she was leaving. We talked some on teh weekend and suggested we go out for a bite to eat dutring the week. On wednesday I called her and we went out to dinner and went back to her place and just hung out and talked. The date went realy well. Then, Friday we went out to that same club and had a grea time. At the end of the night I went back to her palce and we kissed a little.

Saturday I went out with some coworkers and talked to ehr once during the day. We talked on the phone some on Sunday. I know she likes me and I like her and she suggested i teach her to ski this weekend.

My question is how often should I be calling her? How often should I suggest we hang out? I mean i would like to keep getting to know her and talk to her or see her almsot everytday but that is probably bad technique, u know what i mean.

any advice or links to previous threads would be appreciated. and also this girl is latin and goes to church every sunday so she is pretty traditional about this stuff.

thank you!
-dan
First of all, don't cross post over forums, and you don't ask for advice in this forum. This thread should be merged with the one in discusson.
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Now, you're asking how much you should contact her? Well, everyone's different, but once or twice a week should surfice. Live a life of your own, she's just a small part of it.

Take my hint.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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