Re: Just one final question.
Originally posted by Bad_Lil'Pixie
I agree, this thread has taken the dramatic turns like most threads do these days. Maybe Alicorn is right, maybe I am more of a man worshipper than a sexually addicted woman.
JP – Think about drug addiction for a moment, the addict wants his fix when he wants it, he doesn’t want to have to shop and scout for a new supplier every time. He wants a dependable dealer he knows and trusts to give him what he needs. This is the comparable I am using.
The sexually addicted woman wants the man she has become accustomed to and knows inside out. She doesn’t want to begin at square one, square one through twenty suck. She wants to fall right in step with square twenty one and then progress.
You have enlightened me well, now I have one question for you. What is a NORMAL woman?
This I got to know. Is she like the women in my Pilates class that complain about their husbands badgering for oral? Is she my neighbor, the flannel gowned, fuzzy slipper charmer that serves up the vat of hamburger helper every other night? Maybe she is the giver of the grand Birthday blow job once a year. The soccer mom? The grocery store woman with the screaming kids and hairy chin?
This site is full of men saying their girl WON’T put out, their wives DON’T blow them anymore and their woman is getting fat. You have got to tell me what normal actually is?
Bad Pixie, ok, here is how it is. The sexually addicted woman wants NOTHING to do with a monogamous relationship. Those bore the piss out of her. She needs many men and women in her life. She LOVES the concept of "f**k buddies" These work out perfectly, No ring, no string, baby, on Monday night she can call up the sexy EMT student with the muscles and the tatts, and play strip poker at 4am, and have mind blowing sex. Then she wants to be alone tues and Wednesday. But Thursday at "Leeroy's" the bar she is a barmaid at, some cute hippie type tall, and with dreads has some herb he wants to share with her, and they smoke it naked, at his place, inbetween positions.
Friday she works, and her fellow barmaid, who plays both ways, "Sheila" wants to party after work, so they land up at Sheila's caressing each others breasts, and a little mutual mastrubation, before falling asleep naked with each other. Saturday she spends solo, sleeps off the hangover, and then Sunday the EMT guy calls again, and wants to see her, but she has been satisfied for now, she tells him, "call me tomarrow for a drink" (Really because the hippie guy has more weed)....and on and on and on.
Now the sexually addicted woman, who loves the "Fu** Buddies" concept, is independent, single, and loves sex. She has no interest in a one on one relationship with any man or woman, when she has 2-3 friends she can call, at any time who she trusts, and will service her, orally, anally or vaginally. Without all the BS of a steady relationship. No strings. No "Where have you been, who were you with last night" and no crying kids, bills, or laudramat day. Just fun inbetween the sheets, baby. This is the life of a sexually addicted woman. If either the EMT or the Hippie dude want to get too close to her, and start seeing her more than 2-3 times a week, or start calling daily, she gets turned off. She needs her space, baby.
And now the lowly "Attention W**re. A different species all together. She dresses to please, lots of skin and T&A, and is the biggest flirt on the planet. Lots of smiles and winks, and laughs, and sexual innuendos/double talk from her. She goes to the gym to work out in tights that have a saying across the a$$. She is always interested in going out and doing things, but really wants you to foot the bill for dinner, drinks, movies, cover charge, ect. BUT once she is in, it is open season on any available man or woman she deems doable. She loves it though, when she can get a gullible man at her beck and call, who will go out of his way for her to buy her a drink, food, any number of favors. The difference between her and the Sexually addicted woman? The Attention w**re doesnt put out. She wont let a man have so much as a kiss, BUT she WANTS him to think that at any time, he might get lucky, so that she can continue to get the favors, and the ATTENTION from him. She typically is in some kind of sexual relationship with a man who wont commit, and wont do s*it for her, so she wants other dummies to do all the things that her f**k wont. He gets the milk for free, and you have to entertain the cow. Take away attention from an attention wh0re, and she does what the sexually addicted woman does when a guy wants to get too close. She gets disgusted.
A "normal" woman. Gee, I seem to remember a time in the early ninties when woman ACTUALLY dug men. Not this bi-sexuality craze, where Don Juans typically lose out to another woman, but HETEROSEXUAL women, who LIKED men, and enjoyed the whole "Boyfriend-girlfriend" thing. Here is an example. Lets take "Ted" "Ted" is a divorcee, and has always had a thing for "Evette" "Evette" used to work with his ex wife, and one night, she is at the dance club. She goes up to him, and talks to him, and they share a few dances. and a phone #. The next Monday he calls her up, and they set a lunch date. The chemistry is off the charts at lunch, and they flirt and share a small kiss, and he invites her to a second date which she accepts. Dinner, a movie, where neither really pays attention to the movie, and then back to someone's place, where the amorous moans of love can be heard at 5am. They wake up naked. A few days later, they go to a concert, cannot keep their hands off each other. A week later, a friend's BBQ where they make out the whole day and get the "Get a room" comment by laughing friends. About a month into this, she decides to get on the pill..."for him" ...then they discuss, at the two month period, other people, and they both agree they have no intentions of anyone else. Month three they are more or less a "couple" and she starts introing him as her "boyfriend" After 4 months of bliss, the magic words are starting to come up. And by the 6 month period, parents have been met, and nights are too lonely for Evette without Ted sleeping naked next to her.
No Fu*k buddies nonsense. And she wants his attention, and wants to make love to him as well. A NORMAL woman.
