Speculator E
Master Don Juan
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No. And I already told you the reason why.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Dating the hot girl at work that all the male coworkers want and hate you for
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Maximus Rex
Banned
The broad probably doesn't exist.
Speculator E
Master Don Juan
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Dude don't you have a girlfriend or something. 1 of 3 new relatioship are started at work. It's a statistical possibility she is real. And there is no reason why I should care if you think she isn't.
Tictac
Banned
OP is engaging in a SoSuave typing fantasy.
How long how you been 'dating' this chick? How many dates?
Are you having sex?
How long how you been 'dating' this chick? How many dates?
Are you having sex?
SeymourCake
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Never date a coworker. It has potential to jeopardize your job and it leaves the possibility of getting blackmailed.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.