"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Solomon

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I don't think you did anything wrong brother. Some girls are just weird and needy.. For me, I tend to not focu son the problem or arguements they start and just direct their attention to whats good/try and flatter them nd make them feel secure.. It's tough though I had to cut off a girl I just started talking to again recently because of this.. She would always whine about everything and it was very hard to create any stability.

If you notice she keeps starting sht and seems like she got deep issues/baggage.. just move on brother.. theres so many fish in the sea why waste time on a headache?
This year dating wise has been weird, odd thing I found women who wanted to trauma dump on first dates. What usualyl happens is 99% of the time it kills any romantic vibes and nothing ever happens, afterwards you feel used because basically a date is supposed to be fun and light vibes but you end up listening to someone's stuff that you're not that emotionally invested in just to find that, that person doesn't really care about you like that and basically used you as human tissue.

I cut women like this off now with the quickness or I'm very direct and tell them we can bang no dates, you win some you lose more but no one has time for that ****
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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This year dating wise has been weird, odd thing I found women who wanted to trauma dump on first dates. What usualyl happens is 99% of the time it kills any romantic vibes and nothing ever happens, afterwards you feel used because basically a date is supposed to be fun and light vibes but you end up listening to someone's stuff that you're not that emotionally invested in just to find that, that person doesn't really care about you like that and basically used you as human tissue.

I cut women like this off now with the quickness or I'm very direct and tell them we can bang no dates, you win some you lose more but no one has time for that ****
Yeah that can suck to experience dates like that but ultimately we gotta get better at weeding weirdos out.. It can be hard in a dating market, especially because some guys are not getting that many dates to begin with so they'll take what they can get.

I'm glad you cut em off right away-- thats the best way to go. Sometimes even gotta make an excuse to leave before anything happens lol.
 

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Yeah that can suck to experience dates like that but ultimately we gotta get better at weeding weirdos out.. It can be hard in a dating market, especially because some guys are not getting that many dates to begin with so they'll take what they can get.

I'm glad you cut em off right away-- thats the best way to go. Sometimes even gotta make an excuse to leave before anything happens lol.
Yup the craziest one this year was the girl who was telling me loudly in a restaurant that her ex-husband likes to get pegged, I even made a thread about it
 

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Hey @Foe
Anyway curious what happened.
She came around after all this nonsense and we hung out and banged all night. Feels like some sort of **** test along with a demand that she gets railed before I leave in the morning. Sex is her self proclaimed love language and honestly as far as that tripe is concerned Ive heard much worse.

So yeah I think I need to see a Dr about getting on test or something because going more then once a day for me these days is not really a thing. Im a once a day man, far too busy for the followup jingle.

Mates on test and hes hitting his missus up 4 times a day and thats a average, sometimes he tells me 6. I cant even imagine.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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