"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Jair213

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Let's say you are 5'9 and she is 6ft maybe even 6'2.
How do you go about this? :nervous:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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if they are attractive then it doesnt matter, you are hanging out with a hot taller chick thats all, enjoy their nice bodies
 

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I really like taller chicks but the mechanics of sex get a little goofy since I'm 5'8. I do find tall, thin women incredibly attractive though.

I've noticed that the chicks who are most "heightist" are the ones who are about 5'6 to 5'8. Women much shorter don't really care, and surprisingly women much taller don't seem to care either. I think they're so used to towering over men that they just sort of accept it.

I've dated a number of women anywhere from 1 to 5 inches taller than myself and none of them seemed to have an issue with it.
 

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Jair213 said:
Let's say you are 5'9 and she is 6ft maybe even 6'2.
How do you go about this? :nervous:
My only advice is don't ever mention or even joke about her height mate, that is one tall girl, and girls I know this tall have thought they were "freaks" from childhood, it goes deep.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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