"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Jair213

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Let's say you are 5'9 and she is 6ft maybe even 6'2.
How do you go about this? :nervous:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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if they are attractive then it doesnt matter, you are hanging out with a hot taller chick thats all, enjoy their nice bodies
 

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I really like taller chicks but the mechanics of sex get a little goofy since I'm 5'8. I do find tall, thin women incredibly attractive though.

I've noticed that the chicks who are most "heightist" are the ones who are about 5'6 to 5'8. Women much shorter don't really care, and surprisingly women much taller don't seem to care either. I think they're so used to towering over men that they just sort of accept it.

I've dated a number of women anywhere from 1 to 5 inches taller than myself and none of them seemed to have an issue with it.
 

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Jair213 said:
Let's say you are 5'9 and she is 6ft maybe even 6'2.
How do you go about this? :nervous:
My only advice is don't ever mention or even joke about her height mate, that is one tall girl, and girls I know this tall have thought they were "freaks" from childhood, it goes deep.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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