Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Dating tall women

Luveno

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Now, I don't know about you guys, but I feel some sort of incredible sense of pride when I date a woman taller than me.

I'm 6'0, she's 6'3. She's extremely attractive, and in great shape. Her body or face are not masculine in any way. She's just all legs, which is fine by me.

I feel as if I've tamed a beast; I have this woman, who is taller than me, wrapped around my finger. It's a great feeling. I feel in control. I never have this feeling of pride with short women because, well, they're short - they should be easy to apprehend.

It's ridiculous, I know, but it's great nonetheless.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I'm 6'10".

If I ever met a woman taller than me, I'd probably be frightened beyond belief.
 

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I like small girls as well. 5'6'' at the tallest; I prefer between 5'0'' and 5'3''. I'm 6'0''. I dont know why, really, it's just what I like. I actually stopped dating a girl after a few dates because she was too big; not fat at all, just a bigger girl. I want to easily be able to wrap one arm around her whole body. Big girls....ugh.

I dont understand the tall-girl preference. I dont mind seeing eye to eye, but I will NOT be looking up to her!


Oh and hands, too. If her hands are bigger than mine, NEXT!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Colossus said:
I like small girls as well. 5'6'' at the tallest; I prefer between 5'0'' and 5'3''.
I'm 5'8" and I like them in the same range as you do.

Even if the chick is well proportioned weight wise, once they get above 5'6" it's tough to get acrobatic with them in the sack. I like to be able to pick them up and flip them around any way I want them with minimal effort.

Say yes to small chicks :yes:
 

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Colossus said:
I like small girls as well. 5'6'' at the tallest; I prefer between 5'0'' and 5'3''. I'm 6'0''. I dont know why, really, it's just what I like....I dont understand the tall-girl preference. I dont mind seeing eye to eye, but I will NOT be looking up to her!
You do not mind seeing eye to eye,but you prefer to look down at them. You enjoy being dominant.
 

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6'3" here and never had a gf over 5'8". That seemed to be a nice height for me. Almost all women prefer a guy taller than them, so if you are dating women taller than you, you are already at a comparative disadvantage, IMO. Sure there are exceptions and you can win her over IN SPITE of being shorter than her, but why fight the odds?
 

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I agree with steve. No matter how good looking and together you got your ****, height plays a huge role in our culture and women are seeking a guy who is usually 2-3 inches taller then them. This plays a big role when a woman wears high heel shoes because they like to either be eye to eye or slightly shorter with heels on. It may sound superficial but its just the way it goes.
 

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I'm 6' 2", 240 and like them tall. 5'9" and up and I start perking up. I've dated 6'5" girls before[didn't bother me,how big am I supposed to be?]
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Victory Unlimited said:
I've found that women are ALL the same height when I lay them down.
:rockon: :rockon:

My thoughts EXACTLY!!! Their holes are in the same places, too.

I'm Frank Sinatra's height, and the only "problem" I have with taller women is when I have to stand up off the bed to do them doggy.
*shrug*
 

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STR8UP said:
I'm 5'8" and I like them in the same range as you do.

Even if the chick is well proportioned weight wise, once they get above 5'6" it's tough to get acrobatic with them in the sack. I like to be able to pick them up and flip them around any way I want them with minimal effort.

Say yes to small chicks :yes:

Seriously man, if she is taller and/or thicker than me---turn-OFF!!! I'm all set on the manatee rodeo.
 

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manatee rodeo... lol

I prefer 5'4 - 5'7 between size 0 to 6. Tall girls are kinda unattractive to me, although I know lots of guys that are into it.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Tall Ladies are very difficult to dance with.....
 

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I am on the short side 5'8", but that's taller than the average women. I find that women taller than me tend to ignore me as they prefer taller guys. I do however like to fvck them though because of that - a fetish maybe but then what is rare normally is desirable.
 

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Scaramouche said:
Tall Ladies are very difficult to dance with.....
When you're my height, it's the short ones that give real trouble. ;)
 

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An old saying about dating women much shorter than yourself:

"When you're nose to nose her toes are in it and when you're toes to toes her nose is in it"
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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