"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Dating tall women

Luveno

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Now, I don't know about you guys, but I feel some sort of incredible sense of pride when I date a woman taller than me.

I'm 6'0, she's 6'3. She's extremely attractive, and in great shape. Her body or face are not masculine in any way. She's just all legs, which is fine by me.

I feel as if I've tamed a beast; I have this woman, who is taller than me, wrapped around my finger. It's a great feeling. I feel in control. I never have this feeling of pride with short women because, well, they're short - they should be easy to apprehend.

It's ridiculous, I know, but it's great nonetheless.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I'm 6'10".

If I ever met a woman taller than me, I'd probably be frightened beyond belief.
 

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I like small girls as well. 5'6'' at the tallest; I prefer between 5'0'' and 5'3''. I'm 6'0''. I dont know why, really, it's just what I like. I actually stopped dating a girl after a few dates because she was too big; not fat at all, just a bigger girl. I want to easily be able to wrap one arm around her whole body. Big girls....ugh.

I dont understand the tall-girl preference. I dont mind seeing eye to eye, but I will NOT be looking up to her!


Oh and hands, too. If her hands are bigger than mine, NEXT!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Colossus said:
I like small girls as well. 5'6'' at the tallest; I prefer between 5'0'' and 5'3''.
I'm 5'8" and I like them in the same range as you do.

Even if the chick is well proportioned weight wise, once they get above 5'6" it's tough to get acrobatic with them in the sack. I like to be able to pick them up and flip them around any way I want them with minimal effort.

Say yes to small chicks :yes:
 

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Colossus said:
I like small girls as well. 5'6'' at the tallest; I prefer between 5'0'' and 5'3''. I'm 6'0''. I dont know why, really, it's just what I like....I dont understand the tall-girl preference. I dont mind seeing eye to eye, but I will NOT be looking up to her!
You do not mind seeing eye to eye,but you prefer to look down at them. You enjoy being dominant.
 

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6'3" here and never had a gf over 5'8". That seemed to be a nice height for me. Almost all women prefer a guy taller than them, so if you are dating women taller than you, you are already at a comparative disadvantage, IMO. Sure there are exceptions and you can win her over IN SPITE of being shorter than her, but why fight the odds?
 

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I agree with steve. No matter how good looking and together you got your ****, height plays a huge role in our culture and women are seeking a guy who is usually 2-3 inches taller then them. This plays a big role when a woman wears high heel shoes because they like to either be eye to eye or slightly shorter with heels on. It may sound superficial but its just the way it goes.
 

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I'm 6' 2", 240 and like them tall. 5'9" and up and I start perking up. I've dated 6'5" girls before[didn't bother me,how big am I supposed to be?]
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Victory Unlimited said:
I've found that women are ALL the same height when I lay them down.
:rockon: :rockon:

My thoughts EXACTLY!!! Their holes are in the same places, too.

I'm Frank Sinatra's height, and the only "problem" I have with taller women is when I have to stand up off the bed to do them doggy.
*shrug*
 

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STR8UP said:
I'm 5'8" and I like them in the same range as you do.

Even if the chick is well proportioned weight wise, once they get above 5'6" it's tough to get acrobatic with them in the sack. I like to be able to pick them up and flip them around any way I want them with minimal effort.

Say yes to small chicks :yes:

Seriously man, if she is taller and/or thicker than me---turn-OFF!!! I'm all set on the manatee rodeo.
 

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manatee rodeo... lol

I prefer 5'4 - 5'7 between size 0 to 6. Tall girls are kinda unattractive to me, although I know lots of guys that are into it.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Tall Ladies are very difficult to dance with.....
 

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I am on the short side 5'8", but that's taller than the average women. I find that women taller than me tend to ignore me as they prefer taller guys. I do however like to fvck them though because of that - a fetish maybe but then what is rare normally is desirable.
 

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Scaramouche said:
Tall Ladies are very difficult to dance with.....
When you're my height, it's the short ones that give real trouble. ;)
 

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An old saying about dating women much shorter than yourself:

"When you're nose to nose her toes are in it and when you're toes to toes her nose is in it"
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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