“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Dating someone in the media industry

ThisNThat

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I met this woman at a local event regarding something we're both passionate about, in fact it was the geek culture. Turns out we also work in the media. Her in radio, me online. Granted she is attractive, small and petite, but easy to talk to. Of course, sharing some of these things does help break the ice so it's hardly cold approaching.

When I got home, we tagged each other's photos and such.

The thing is though, I was wondering if she gets asked out all the time...even in person...that I'll just seem like white noise to her? I did ask her out after I got home, waiting on an answer as it typically takes her about a day to get back to her messages.

But I'm thinking since she's a member of the media industry she's got a line of messages and friends request BOTH industry related and social. So there's kind of a blur there between the two, which probably makes such an industry so fun to be in (probably doesn't pay much though).
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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ALL hot chicks get hit on all the time... Fives and sixes get hit at least once a week. SO if you don't act like a man and be direct in what you want, you have already lost. Get her on a date and see what happens. If she wont go out with you, put her out of your mind and go get other chicks.

You are already fvcking up by thinking about a women that hasn't gone out with you. She should be nothing to you until she meets you on a date.
 
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