"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Dating someone in the media industry

ThisNThat

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I met this woman at a local event regarding something we're both passionate about, in fact it was the geek culture. Turns out we also work in the media. Her in radio, me online. Granted she is attractive, small and petite, but easy to talk to. Of course, sharing some of these things does help break the ice so it's hardly cold approaching.

When I got home, we tagged each other's photos and such.

The thing is though, I was wondering if she gets asked out all the time...even in person...that I'll just seem like white noise to her? I did ask her out after I got home, waiting on an answer as it typically takes her about a day to get back to her messages.

But I'm thinking since she's a member of the media industry she's got a line of messages and friends request BOTH industry related and social. So there's kind of a blur there between the two, which probably makes such an industry so fun to be in (probably doesn't pay much though).
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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RangerMIke

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ALL hot chicks get hit on all the time... Fives and sixes get hit at least once a week. SO if you don't act like a man and be direct in what you want, you have already lost. Get her on a date and see what happens. If she wont go out with you, put her out of your mind and go get other chicks.

You are already fvcking up by thinking about a women that hasn't gone out with you. She should be nothing to you until she meets you on a date.
 
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