"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Dating sites are rough... dam!

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Combo all the tricks and things women already do to make themselves look better than what they really look like (makeup, pushup bras, heels), with some creative photography, just the right angle and lighting with just the right push up bra and makeup. And you can really make a hideous owl beast look like the finest little sex kitten you have ever seen.

Messaged a pretty hot looking girl on POF, kinda going back and fourth. She posts up a new picture today from a different angle... WHOA!!!! easy there trigger!!!!! the horse show is that way!!! <<BLOCKED>>

It's funny how girls profiles always read "looking for guys not into playing games" when they are the ones playing games misleading dudes like this.

I can easily picture a scenario where a dude meets a girl like this in real life. Ugly chicks are always horny so he obliges, then.... BAWWWWWWWWW you don't really like me! Stop playing games!!!.... how can he when "me" really is an illusion in every sense of the word?

Men... watch yourselves out there... it's rough...

Chris rock has it right!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=g_4DYBejrvo
 
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I know exactly what you mean.

on the flip side, I've had a few dates that actually looked WAY better in person.
 

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Don't even bother reading into anything they say.

And yea you really have to be careful with girls who use the up above camera angle. I think another guy here called it the up high hippo angle. Tons of fatties on Pof take pics from that angle to hide how big they are
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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This is something thats brought up a lot, but I'll say it again: just because someone expects or complains - does NOT mean they will reciprocate, and arent the same way themselves. So, they hate liars, games, cheaters, jerks,etc. Does that mean THEY are honest, faithful, straight-forward, trustworthy, etc? Only in their self-absorbed minds. A ***** looking for a good man isnt going to stop her from being a *****. Its just as you see it - a ***** complaining and feeling entitled. They may not view it that way, but its still true. Finally, most people ***** about the same things they are. Otherwise they wouldnt be involving themselves in it. Someone who complains about drama likely surrounds their entire lives around, and is the cause all of it. Whatever theyre *****ing about is part of their lifestyle. Guaranteed. "I hate jerks" - I surround myself with, seek out, and attract jerks, because I'm a jerk, or complete dumbass" - AVOID.

Finally finally, dating sites are garbage. Avoid those, too.
 
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