"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Dating sites are rough... dam!

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Combo all the tricks and things women already do to make themselves look better than what they really look like (makeup, pushup bras, heels), with some creative photography, just the right angle and lighting with just the right push up bra and makeup. And you can really make a hideous owl beast look like the finest little sex kitten you have ever seen.

Messaged a pretty hot looking girl on POF, kinda going back and fourth. She posts up a new picture today from a different angle... WHOA!!!! easy there trigger!!!!! the horse show is that way!!! <<BLOCKED>>

It's funny how girls profiles always read "looking for guys not into playing games" when they are the ones playing games misleading dudes like this.

I can easily picture a scenario where a dude meets a girl like this in real life. Ugly chicks are always horny so he obliges, then.... BAWWWWWWWWW you don't really like me! Stop playing games!!!.... how can he when "me" really is an illusion in every sense of the word?

Men... watch yourselves out there... it's rough...

Chris rock has it right!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=g_4DYBejrvo
 
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I know exactly what you mean.

on the flip side, I've had a few dates that actually looked WAY better in person.
 

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Don't even bother reading into anything they say.

And yea you really have to be careful with girls who use the up above camera angle. I think another guy here called it the up high hippo angle. Tons of fatties on Pof take pics from that angle to hide how big they are
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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This is something thats brought up a lot, but I'll say it again: just because someone expects or complains - does NOT mean they will reciprocate, and arent the same way themselves. So, they hate liars, games, cheaters, jerks,etc. Does that mean THEY are honest, faithful, straight-forward, trustworthy, etc? Only in their self-absorbed minds. A ***** looking for a good man isnt going to stop her from being a *****. Its just as you see it - a ***** complaining and feeling entitled. They may not view it that way, but its still true. Finally, most people ***** about the same things they are. Otherwise they wouldnt be involving themselves in it. Someone who complains about drama likely surrounds their entire lives around, and is the cause all of it. Whatever theyre *****ing about is part of their lifestyle. Guaranteed. "I hate jerks" - I surround myself with, seek out, and attract jerks, because I'm a jerk, or complete dumbass" - AVOID.

Finally finally, dating sites are garbage. Avoid those, too.
 
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