Dating shy girl this wednesday

[sosousage]

Haven't been on a date for a while but my joking skills should make it. I'm also not a joker type lmao but i just talk about extremely funny things in the past and make it seem like it was recently so i get her to laugh. then i plot in some sarcasm.

Dont know about the weather, this week was ****ty but she assumed we can go for a coffee. I find that boring and i wont be able to hug her like I do this usually to women on beach haha.

What would you guys recommend for the date place + overall tips? I was reading dj bible both old and new version as well as other sources and had plenty of dates in the past but I can always perform better.

 

[djthiago1]

Shy girls aren't fun, you better be a good talker.

Also, if it's a first date, take the coffee date.
And why are you going around hugging people? You sound creepy, no offense.

 

[TheProspect]

Go ghost then instant next. Then show up on the date and number close. It will get her hamster spinning. She'll question your actions, don't fall for the sh!t test. Be c0cky and funny and if that doesn't work go hard no contact. If she doesn't reach out, she already branch swung (or you still probably have her number blocked)... either way, don't take it personally, AWALT. You are now red-pilled.




Just go on the date dude. Don't overthink it.

 

[marmel75]

Why can't you hug her? That's pretty platonic.
I've done quite a bit more than that in public places with women I've just met.

These simple self limiting beliefs most people have when it comes to dating are what hold them back...

I can't do this to a girl I just met....why not? Have you tried it before?

She isn't like that... Really?.She has been with someone, why not you?

I can't do that in public....Really? Sure you can, grab her hand and put it directly on your c0ck...haven't had a woman pull it away yet.

 

[sosousage]

Why can't you hug her? That's pretty platonic.
I've done quite a bit more than that in public places with women I've just met.

yeah because beach is more isolates than some caffeeplace and escalating touch>hug>kiss would be easy and comfortable because nobody sees but in some cafe there are people all close + it could make her shy + you usually sit on the other side of table. how you gonna hug from there lol.

I know there are people that make hugs from any place but for me its much easier to do it from beach when we both siting to each other chillin.


PS i do not mean the "welcome and goodbye hugs" these come always. i mean the hug you do before kissing

 

[marmel75]

yeah because beach is more isolates than some caffeeplace and escalating touch>hug>kiss would be easy and comfortable because nobody sees but in some cafe there are people all close + it could make her shy + you usually sit on the other side of table. how you gonna hug from there lol.

I know there are people that make hugs from any place but for me its much easier to do it from beach when we both siting to each other chillin.


PS i do not mean the "welcome and goodbye hugs" these come always. i mean the hug you do before kissing

Stop caring about what "people see". It's wildly exciting to women.

When you sit down sit next to her and physically grab her chair and pull it closer to you with her sitting on it. Problem solved. That display of masculinity is also typically wildly exciting to women too.

 

[Trump]

Stop caring about what "people see". It's wildly exciting to women.

When you sit down sit next to her and physically grab her chair and pull it closer to you with her sitting on it. Problem solved. That display of masculinity is also typically wildly exciting to women too.

But be careful. The politically correct couple at the next table might not like what they see and call the Police and claim you sexually harassed her. Not fun spending the next 6 months explaining to Police that you didn't and avoiding a criminal record.

Women love guys who "play by their own rules." Same women will be glad you are dead if they have no use for you.

 

[Dash Riprock]

Shy girls are HARD to date.

Personally, I find shy girls a pain in the ass. I mean, open your mouth and talk, WTF? Are they so afraid to say anything that they'll feel dumb or inadequate?? I've dated a number of them and find myself having to carry 80-90% of the conversation--it's f*ucking exhausting, not "sexy." I'm very outgoing, have many stories, and play C&F like a pro, but crap, it would be nice if a "shy girl" could advance the conversation a bit. They all piss me off. I dated one shy girl a few months back who was cute (kept her in the game) but had NO OPINION on anything; news, current events, hobbies, sports teams, books--anything. I dated her 5 times and that was it. How do these people ever end up with anyone if they cannot express themselves or hold a conversation? Yet this woman had been married and had 2 kids. Blows my mind.

 

[marmel75]

But be careful. The politically correct couple at the next table might not like what they see and call the Police and claim you sexually harassed her. Not fun spending the next 6 months explaining to Police that you didn't and avoiding a criminal record.

Women love guys who "play by their own rules." Same women will be glad you are dead if they have no use for you.

That's why you scout the places out before going there and only go to ones with corner booths and some privacy...I never did coffee dates...always for drinks, and only one of three places that fit that description and had dim lighting...